...unless he's messing with us?
Mr. Schumacher, are you messing with us?
I think that people overthink and overanalyze (I do too) when the simpler solution as to why I'm interacting about this topic is simply because I have a tendency to visit threads I've already posted in, and also have a tendency to visit threads that tend to become heated as some form of keeping the peace. I see something and then respond to it.
I'm careful to not try to tip either a yes or a no. But making a character romanceable simply because some people find them attractive isn't all that compelling in and of itself. I think all the characters are reasonably attractive, some more than others. Varric is handsome, but he wasn't a romance. Many people sure wanted him to be a romance though.
Speaking personally, with all my biases for what I want and the messaging I like portray, my focus on making romances is much more about the character than how they look, because we have such a finite selection to choose from for romances. Make a character (human, elf, qunari, dwarf) romanceable if there's something interesting to add via romance. As opposed to "lets go in with the goal of making this Qunari romanceable because that's what some people want." There's a compelling argument for *any* character to be romanced based on fans thinking that they look attractive. Merril both looks and behaves quite a bit different than Sera, for instance, even if they're both elves. People also overstate things like Cullen being romanceable "because fans asked for it" (I know for a fact there's internal interest from some people to explore a romance with Cullen).
So if it were up to me to make a Qunari romanceable, it'd be because the character created lends themselves to be a interesting candidate for a romance. Not because "oh wow this character sure is physically attractive" (since it may not even be known how attractive the character will ultimately end up).