Blackwall is slightly better, but I'm 21 and I feel like he could be my grandfather. I get that the Inquisitor is not me, but I just can't get out of that mindset, so..
I'm 35, and Blackwall feels like he could be my grandfather, too.
Or dad. Someone I personally don't want to romance.
I'm also with you on Iron Bull. Chris Evans as Captain America is pretty much as far as my taste in really muscular men goes, and I find Iron Bull's model to be borderline grotesque. He seems like he will be an awesome companion, and I'm cool with him being a LI if only because he's so unique (and awesome), but he is not a pleasure for me to look at. However, I have a thing for baldness, lankiness, and scholarly types, so Solas hits a lot of my buttons. Not as many as Dorian, but a lot.