Funny i make one comment then everyone has a go at me for my opinion. But if a women or gay had asked for things to be changed that would make them feel uncomfortable that would be allright. But mine is a big no no
I'm not trying to insight an argument, but as someone who did take offence to what you said, I'll try to explain why I found what you said on the offensive side. This is not an attack of you, I'm just trying to offer some insight.
You came out and said that while you are okay with there being gay content, you are not okay with BW shoving gay content down your throat because not only did it make you uncomfortable, but it took away your choice. What I and many other people pointed out, was that having a male character hit on you did not take away your choice, nor was it shoving gay content down your throat.
Many of us, even went on to explain that while we didn't necessarily appreciate having someone we were not interested in hitting on us, we also understand that it can and does happen. However, we are also given the choice to tell Anders we are not interested in him. Honestly, I wasn't comfortable with him hitting on me. I'm never comfortable with someone I'm not interested in hitting on me. That goes for men and women. Just because I'm a lesbian, doesn't mean I'm attracted to every woman I meet. However, I can accept that people I'm not interested in might hit on me. I'm not forced to return their affections. I can politely turn them down and move on.
So, if you were to just say you felt uncomfortable, fine that's totally understandable and valid, but I think a lot of people felt you were going into attack mode and that's when things can get messy. If I had said, I'm fine with men or straight people, but don't shove that crap down my throat, I'm sure there would be plenty of people jumping on me too. It had very little if anything to do with you being a straight male, but what you actually said.