Yep, but he also mentioned a similar feeling regarding dwarves if i'm not mistaken.
I had the same mix up, but here's what a post he made said about dwarves and qunari:
http://forum.bioware...ith/?p=12071293
People make a lot of requests, particularly when it comes to romance. Heck, if we mentioned that we'd added a mailbox into the game someone would request a romance with it. So the fact that dwarven romances or female kossith (and/or romances with female kossith) have been requested by some is hardly remarkable.
Insofar as romances with dwarves go, we might add one at some point-- for the right character. I've joked about finding dwarf romance icky in the past, but I have no particular objection so long as the dwarf in question doesn't look child-like.
Insofar as female kossith go, we might also add one at some point. That would be awesome. I think their concept looks hawt.
Why haven't we done either of these things yet? Because we're doing other things, and we don't create whole plots or characters on demand nor do we do something solely because it hasn't been done. Eventually we're likely to do both.
BioWare is known for listening to their fans. Youknow... Cullen is an LI after two games because his fans were so loyal, Garrus, Tali and then Vega and so on.
But apparently you're saying the writers did mention a few times that Bianca is his only love? As in, don't hope for anything?
In a tweet from last year, DG mentioned that. However, that might have changed. The one thing I have seen is Cameron Lee in interviews stressing how much Varric loves Bianca, and a quote about how "Varric really loves Bianca and that he might not be able to let that go." I really doubt he was talking about weapons, since it's been confirmed that we can even swap out Varric's crossbow.
I hold a candle, but that's about it. I'm not going to be crushed if Varric is "Bianca-sexual" again, since my expectations aren't that high. If he is a romance, then I'll take it as as welcome surprise. If not, well, I've got my buddy back and he'll still end up with a permanent spot in my party.