Yeah, after reading a lot of those threads, it seems like it's really only a minority of folks that are extremely unhappy. I've seen plenty of straight men go, "What's wrong with Vivienne or Cass? You need to get your eyes checked." I've seen more of those types of posts than ones that agree the romance options somehow suck.
Scribbles seems like she's a fun gal. Why do so many overlook her. 
This. You know how the bsn work.
By the way, Those who are indifferent or satisfied don't feel the need to create a topic to tell how much they are satisfied. This is just useless and this is why we only see negative topics. Most people are fine and they don't need to create a topic and scream they are fine. It will be the same out there.
It will be like that : During the release, the first weeks, The vocal minority complaining, often with racist and homopobe comments on internet, and after that, a few months later, you 'll see more often those fans squeeing for their favorite Li, and many articles and many people praising Bioware for its inclusiveness toward minorities in the video game industry.
This is how I see the future. 