One thing I can promise you: They didn't give into the Realism argument as a reason for exclusion nor are they going to. We have our first beautiful black human lady as a companion, in an industry were that is just utterly lacking. We've got three non hetero characters confirmed as romances. Two of which are confirmed gay and lesbian orientations, which are firsts for BioWare.
Plus, I've done the math: There is only 4 possible ladies to romance (Cass, Sera, Josie and Vivienne,) 5 if you we're counting the non companion/non adviser romance. (I suspect Dagna.) One of which is confirmed a lesbian, and the other is straight so at least 3-4 for men. (again, counting Dagna in this).
There is five men (Dorian, Varric, Iron Bull, Solas, Cullen) among the male cast that could be available as LIs (not assuming they all are, but it's a possibility.) One of which is a confirmed gay man and the other is straight. So, ladies could end up with at least 4 as well.
Gay men could end up with 3 options (IB, Solas and Dorian,) and lesbians could have 3-4 (Sera, Josie, Vivi, and going with the Dagna theory.)
I seriously doubt they'll make another gay or lesbian exclusive LI again for this particular game.
I'm not saying this has any basis in reality, but it is something I've noticed over the last few weeks.
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