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#10801
Ryzaki

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I thought seriously about opening the playthrough from an earlier check and seeing if I picked the wrong option, since I thought you could talk him into it if rivalry was maxed.  But I'm trying to have worldstates that differ by more than race, class, and gender.

 

XD you can I think you just need to mention the slavery bit at the gallows if he doesn't auto side with you (i've never had an issue with him siding with me but I've never had a game that I didn't bang him on/had full river on so...)

 

Edit: As for Cassandra. I view that as complaining about Dorian/Sera at this point. I mean...it's done with. I could see asking BW for a butch warrior lady for the next game but *shrug*



#10802
karushna5

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<sigh>

 

Going by my guess list:

 

Straight

Cass

Cullen

Varric

 

So that's two straight options for ladies, one for straight men

 

Bi

Josie

Iron Bull

Vivienne

 

So that's up to three options for straight men, one for the gay men, two for the lesbians, three for the straight ladies at this point.

 

Gay

Dorian

Sera

 

Let's tally: 3 for straight men, three for the lesbians, two for gay men, three for straight men, four for straight women.  Or, they could switch up Vivienne for someone else and make it two for for the lesbians, three for gay men, and four for straight women.

 

Is it really that hard to believe that BW could favor straight women this time around, even if on accident?

 

 

None taken.

 

...Um, we could say that about the gay and lesbian romances too.  No one needs more than one option, but here we are, looking like everyone is going to get at least two.

 

you counted wrong...? Your hypothesis equals 3 for everyone but gay men. Now imagine how neat it would be if instead of varric, it was Solas, who might be Bi?

3 for everyone.

 

The devs said everyone should have 2 options. i don't understand what you are implying. that there should only be 1 romance for each. So 1 Gay Man, 1 Lesbian, 1 straight man, and 1 straight woman to romance??



#10803
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Where do you think bisexuals fit into that, if you don't mind me asking?

 

Left aisle, with the unicorns. We obviously don't exist. 


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#10804
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Left aisle, with the unicorns. We obviously don't exist. 

 

Bisexual oppression doesn't count because we get to pick from everyone, obviously.



#10805
Grieving Natashina

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you counted wrong...? Your hypothesis equals 3 for everyone but gay men. Now imagine how neat it would be if instead of varric, it was Solas, who might be Bi?

3 for everyone.

 

Not neat to me.  I'd rather have Varric as bisexual, cries of "you ruined the character" be damned.

 

Left aisle, with the unicorns. We obviously don't exist. 

 

Bisexual oppression doesn't count because we get to pick from everyone, obviously.

 

 

Heh.  I'm having trouble laughing at this, because it's a little too close to home sometimes.  Too straight to be gay, too gay to be straight and it's common to have very little acceptance by either group.  Bisexual women?  You're just there to tease straight men and cheat on lesbians.  Bisexual men?  Oh stop it, you're just in the closet as a gay man.  Come out and you'll feel better.

 

I am NOT saying that all of my straight and LGTB brothers and sisters are like this.  Far from it, so please don't take my words that way.

 

Okay, now I'm getting depressed.  I think I'll listen to some upbeat music and hang out in the Dorian and Varric threads.  


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#10806
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Left aisle, with the unicorns. We obviously don't exist.

Woah, does this mean laws don't apply to bisexuals? That would be awesome to me!

Or ... Be like a ghost!

#10807
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If Solas, IB, and Vivienne are all bi and available, everyone would get 3 options (not considering race gates).


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#10808
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I don't argue that, and that wasn't exactly my point.  I've read posters absolutely aghast at the mere mention that straight women might get more content than straight men and are quick to state that will never happen.

 

I don't wish anyone to get shorted on the romances.  I hope you know that.   :(

 

 

Where do you think bisexuals fit into that, if you don't mind me asking?

 

One reason I am really glad that the set sexuality system are giving you guys representation. The all BI LIs seemed almost shady like they were hiding their actual sexualities, which isnt the case here. So All for Josie and Iron Bull, definitely Bi characters, and heres hoping for more!



#10809
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I think it was Gaider who said that Bioware would worry about gender and sexuality equality more than they would worry about race equality

My understanding was that he meant you would get equal options based on your sexuality/gender, but certain races might not get as many options. Not everyone is taking it that way.

 

But what I think will happen is 2/4/2 with 1 male and 1 female race gated. This is what I think it will be;

 

Cassandra - Straight

Cullen - Straight

 

Sera - Lesbian

Dorian - Gay

 

Josephine - Ungated Bisexual 

Solas or Blackwall - Ungated Bisexual

 

Iron Bull - Gated Bisexual

Vivienne - Gated Bisexual

 

Everyone will get two options and some race combinations will get three. Equal distribution by gender/sexuality.


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#10810
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My understanding was that he meant you would get equal options based on your sexuality/gender, but certain races might not get as many options. Not everyone is taking it that way.

 

But what I think will happen is 2/4/2 with 1 male and 1 female race gated. This is what I think it will be;

 

Cassandra - Straight

Cullen - Straight

 

Sera - Lesbian

Dorian - Gay

 

Josephine - Ungated Bisexual 

Solas or Blackwall - Ungated Bisexual

 

Iron Bull - Gated Bisexual

Vivienne - Gated Bisexual

 

Everyone will get two options and some race combinations will get three. Equal distribution by gender/sexuality.

 

I really like this layout. A lot. It's also come to the point where I wouldn't be disappointed by either Solas or Blackwall. I mean, I like Solas's personality better, but Blackwall seems different from what we normally get, so I wouldn't mind so much.


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#10811
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I don't understand the concern from bisexual. There will probably be more bisexuals than any other orientation? I totally support bisexual representation, but I don't understand how anyone was implying they should be marginalized. Did I miss something?  



#10812
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My understanding was that he meant you would get equal options based on your sexuality/gender, but certain races might not get as many options. Not everyone is taking it that way.

 

Everyone will get two options and some race combinations will get three. Equal distribution by gender/sexuality.

Yes, My way of thinking as well, personally, I like the idea that it is more most will have 3 but a couple of combos will only have 2


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#10813
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Heh.  I'm having trouble laughing at this, because it's a little too close to home sometimes.  Too straight to be gay, too gay to be straight and it's common to have very little acceptance by either group.  Bisexual women?  You're just there to tease straight men and cheat on lesbians.  Bisexual men?  Oh stop it, you're just in the closet as a gay man.  Come out and you'll feel better.

 

I am NOT saying that all of my straight and LGTB brothers and sisters are like this.  Far from it, so please don't take my words that way.

 

Okay, now I'm getting depressed.  I think I'll listen to some upbeat music and hang out in the Dorian and Varric threads.  

 

*hug* The Varric thread makes everything better. :c


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#10814
Grieving Natashina

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I don't understand the concern from bisexual. There will probably be more bisexuals than any other orientation? I totally support bisexual representation, but I don't understand how anyone was implying they should be marginalized. Did I miss something?  

That wasn't directed towards you, that was in response to Battlemage's list of typical game industry priorities.  I was just wondering where, if anywhere, bisexuals fit into that.



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Edit: Maybe they were illustrating the way the game industry sometimes presents bisexuals as not existent and not because they forgot? (i'm trying to be positive)



#10816
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I'm a little behind on this thread. But have we all seen that post by the dragonaging tumblr blog where the non companion non advisor li is not included in the 8 previously mentioned

#10817
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Heh.  I'm having trouble laughing at this, because it's a little too close to home sometimes.  Too straight to be gay, too gay to be straight and it's common to have very little acceptance by either group.  Bisexual women?  You're just there to tease straight men and cheat on lesbians.  Bisexual men?  Oh stop it, you're just in the closet as a gay man.  Come out and you'll feel better.

 

I am NOT saying that all of my straight and LGTB brothers and sisters are like this.  Far from it, so please don't take my words that way.

 

Okay, now I'm getting depressed.  I think I'll listen to some upbeat music and hang out in the Dorian and Varric threads.  

If it helps, my girlfriend is bisexual and I find the idea of her cheating on me with a man to be utterly absurd.



#10818
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I've seen one theory(as far as I can tell, pure speculation) that the gating might occur because the inquisitor of the gated race is actually related to the gated romance option. 

 

 

While I've been perhaps the single most vocal opponent of race gating on these forums, this is one application of it I wouldn't mind. It actually makes sense, and adds some depth and characterization beyond the character having the random quirk of not wanting to bang whatever race.

 

Specifically the theory was suggesting that it may be Cullen a human inquisitor is related to.



#10819
Nocte ad Mortem

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That wasn't directed towards you, that was in response to Battlemage's list of typical game industry priorities.  I was just wondering where, if anywhere, bisexuals fit into that.

Ah, I didn't see that. 



#10820
Grieving Natashina

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If it helps, my girlfriend is bisexual and I find the idea of her cheating on me with a man to be utterly absurd.

<hugs> It's always nice to hear.   :)

 

 

Ah, I didn't see that. 

No worries.

 

By the way, despite my passion on the subject, I truly and sincerely wish that we can get who we want and enjoy our LI choices.  For those that might not, I hope playing the game and getting to know these characters helps.

 

As for me with Varric, well, I'll hold on hope unless the devs tell me isn't available.



#10821
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Heh.  I'm having trouble laughing at this, because it's a little too close to home sometimes.  Too straight to be gay, too gay to be straight and it's common to have very little acceptance by either group.  Bisexual women?  You're just there to tease straight men and cheat on lesbians.  Bisexual men?  Oh stop it, you're just in the closet as a gay man.  Come out and you'll feel better.

 

I am NOT saying that all of my straight and LGTB brothers and sisters are like this.  Far from it, so please don't take my words that way.

 

Okay, now I'm getting depressed.  I think I'll listen to some upbeat music and hang out in the Dorian and Varric threads.  

 

I didn't mean to dredge up bad memories with by joking about it. It's how I deal with the shitty attitude that people have. 

 

I've dealt with a lot of prejudice both because nature committed the terrible sin to not make the straight in the first place, and the second terrible sin of giving me a particular type of guy that I really like. The "Just Admit You're Gay" is actually on the "less insulting" slide of the scale of things I've heard from people, which is why I'm just not open with anyone IRL about my sexuality. They can either think I'm straight or gay based on who I'm dating, unless they're a really close, old friend in which case they know who I am anyway. 

 

... and that's it for my over-sharing! 

 

Woah, does this mean laws don't apply to bisexuals? That would be awesome to me!

Or ... Be like a ghost!

We steal all the good men/women from everyone. 



#10822
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<hugs> It's always nice to hear.   :)

*hugs*

Bloody Cassandra, though.


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#10823
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My understanding was that he meant you would get equal options based on your sexuality/gender, but certain races might not get as many options. Not everyone is taking it that way.
 
But what I think will happen is 2/4/2 with 1 male and 1 female race gated. This is what I think it will be;
 
Cassandra - Straight
Cullen - Straight
 
Sera - Lesbian
Dorian - Gay
 
Josephine - Ungated Bisexual 
Solas or Blackwall - Ungated Bisexual
 
Iron Bull - Gated Bisexual
Vivienne - Gated Bisexual
 
Everyone will get two options and some race combinations will get three. Equal distribution by gender/sexuality.


Solas... or Blackwall.... Solas.... or Blackwall...

#10824
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Here's my opinion, I posted this in the Vivienne thread, but it's relevant here.

 

It's unlikely (not sure) that Blackwall will be a romance because he's fairly old and tainted. (once again not sure)

 

Iron Bull will probably be a romance.

 

Varric might be a LI as well.

 

So it's either Solas or Vivienne. They said they would pay attention to gender/ sexuality equality over races right? (Even though they may have meant that more toward player-race gating)

 

Solas is in his 40's (early-middle aged), and we already have an Elf romance, Sera.

 

Vivienne on the other hand is incredibly attractive, and young looking. We also need to balance out that there are more male romance options at this point, so Vivienne become the likely choice.

 

OR

 

Varric won't be a romance option, and Solas or Blackwall would be available.



#10825
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Solas... or Blackwall.... Solas.... or Blackwall...

 

Yeah of those two please be Solas. XD


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