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Now, it's about here that I start getting skeptical. They're just taking the ******, surely?
N...o?
Demisexual is when you don't experience sexual feelings unless you form a deep emotional attachment to a person. He was genderfluid because somedays he wanted to be called a guy and wear shorts and a T-shirt and other days he wanted to wear a frilly skirt, wear make up and be called a girl.
I suspect my chain is being yanked.
Does that count as asexual?
Urrgh, I hate the term freindzoned for so many reasons.
Honestly, it is really,really, difficult. A lot of the time potential partners think 'its them' or 'they are not attractive enough', and then it turns into resentment. Going to speed dating as an A-sexual is hillarious sometimes.
It goes both ways imo. There's the whole stigma about guys who get friendzoned feeling "entitled" to sex, and there's the argument that it's cruel to keep people who get friendzoned around you because they willingly let you take advantage of them.
Personally I don't get the hatred against people (mostly directed at guys) who complain about being in in the "friendzone." My view is that it's perfectly normal to want to be with someone you like in that way, and spend intimate moments with them. It's also perfectly normal to feel put out when the other person doesn't feel that way, venting those frustrations by complaining is how most people would react. It has nothing to do with "entitlement."
Yup, that's the exact situation my friend is in. She's in a relationship with a guy who isn't asexual, and he wants more from the relationship than she is prepared to give.
Sounds like that character from Family Compo
N...o? He was genderfluid because somedays he wanted to be called a guy and wear shorts and a T-shirt and other days he wanted to wear a frilly skirt, wear make up and be called a girl.
This has to cause problems. What does his driver's licence say? How does he fill out forms? Which toilet does he use? Do insurance companies decide his premium based on his gender being male or female?
N...o?
Demisexual is when you don't experience sexual feelings unless you form a deep emotional attachment to a person. He was genderfluid because somedays he wanted to be called a guy and wear shorts and a T-shirt and other days he wanted to wear a frilly skirt, wear make up and be called a girl.
And he would chose his toilets based on the clothes he wore that day?
This has to cause problems. What does his driver's licence say? How does he fill out forms? Which toilet does he use? Do insurance companies decide his premium based on his gender being male or female?
Read family Compo it will answer all those sorts of questions.
Just before entering university, Yanagiba Masahiko's father died in a car accident. His mother died when he was two, which makes him now really an orphan. But even before the death of his father he didn't have a family life, his father being busy or abroad.
When his mother's younger brother and his wife decide to invite him to live with their family, his life takes a turn. But it is not going to be the normal family life he is imagining himself. What is the "terrible" secret that lead his parents to break the bonds with his aunt and uncle? What could be the true nature of his cousin, Shion? And last but not least, will this "terrible" secret eventually get Yanagiba too?
Im surpraised no one was brought a Mabari war hound into this yet i mean Can i get my dog a LI and can they have puppies?! cause i love puppies!
This has to cause problems. What does his driver's licence say? How does he fill out forms? Which toilet does he use? Do insurance companies decide his premium based on his gender being male or female?
Male preference and biologically male. I know his school ID and drivers license were based on that. Not sure about the other stuff?
He used female or male toilets/change rooms for whatever gender he felt like being that day.
Now, it's about here that I start getting skeptical. They're just taking the ******, surely?
Well, think about how many types of bread there are. Now, apply that to gender and sexuality.
It goes both ways imo. There's the whole stigma about guys who get friendzoned feeling "entitled" to sex, and there's the argument that it's cruel to keep people who get friendzoned around you because they willingly let you take advantage of them.
Personally I don't get the hatred against people (mostly directed at guys) who complain about being in in the "friendzone." My view is that it's perfectly normal to want to be with someone you like in that way, and spend intimate moments with them. It's also perfectly normal to feel put out when the other person doesn't feel that way, venting those frustrations by complaining is how most people would react.
Yup, that's the exact situation my friend is in. She's in a relationship with a guy who isn't asexual, and he wants more from the relationship than she is prepared to give.
The problem is because the term 'friendzone' implies that the only worthwhile relationship you can have with someone is a sexual one and if they knew a sexual one was never in the cards, they wouldn't have bothered at all. It's really a wretched thing to feel, like someone is only being nice to you because they eventually want in between your legs and if they knew that wasn't on the table, they'd have not even bothered doing that in the first place.
Male preference and biologically male. I know his school ID and drivers license were based on that. Not sure about the other stuff?
He used female or male toilets/change rooms for whatever gender he felt like being that day.
Most people will use the same one as their biological identity, because while using that might get you odd looks. Using the other can and will get you put on the sex offender register.
He used female or male toilets/change rooms for whatever gender he felt like being that day.
I really don't think you should be able to do that. I couldn't one day decide that I'm a girl and start going into girl's toilets. It's dangerous. The other stuff is fine, but that just makes you a male, with perfectly acceptable, yet unorthodox, habits.
No idea what you're on about, AkiKishi.
I've been accused of 'friendzoning' a few times were a guy 'falls for me' and then gets pissy because I wouldn't leave my then boyfriend because of that.
It is NOT fun. It can be annoying and even scary at times.
In my teen years i had bad habit of falling in love with any girl i saw lol. Im proud to say i never made an ass out of myself tho. If someone wants to be with you they will be with you its that simple. If someone wants to be friends with you then be happy for that friendship. I mean if your truly care for someone you want them to be happy.
I really don't think you should be able to do that. I couldn't one day decide that I'm a girl and start going into girl's toilets. It's dangerous. The other stuff is fine, but that just makes you a male, with perfectly acceptable, yet unorthodox, habits.
No idea what you're on about, AkiKishi.
He never had any problem with it over here? The University was very accepting of it, and even gave him two student IDs to switch between whenever he pleased.
Besides, I've personally never understood the difference between male and female restrooms.
You're in a locked stall anyway, what difference does it make?
I've been accused of 'friendzoning' a few times were a guy 'falls for me' and then gets pissy because I wouldn't leave my then boyfriend because of that.
It is NOT fun. It can be annoying and even scary at times.
It depends on the individual. I've seen some girls use it to control a sort of reverse harem without ever putting out. It's kind of impressive.
It's an age old question can men and women ever be friends.
He never had any problem with it over here? The University was very accepting of it, and even gave him two student IDs to switch between whenever he pleased.
Besides, I've personally never understood the difference between male and female restrooms.
You're in a locked stall anyway, what difference does it make?
You can't see a problem with a bloke having free rein over the women's change room? A women's change room full of half naked women?
Male restrooms have urinals, by the way. Unless you're suggesting they abolish urinals.
The Friend Zone is a very real place. Dark, unforgiving and cold. A place where many men have lost their way.
Isn't that right, Ser Jorah?
I really don't think you should be able to do that. I couldn't one day decide that I'm a girl and start going into girl's toilets. It's dangerous. The other stuff is fine, but that just makes you a male, with perfectly acceptable, yet unorthodox, habits.
No idea what you're on about, AkiKishi.
At the risk of being dreadfully off-topic, the rate of assault by transgendered or genderfluid people is a pittance compared to the rate of assault against people who are transgendered or genderfluid. Plus, you don't get to decide someone else's gender. Just your own. I can't tell you what your gender or sexuality is. You don't get to do it for other people.
Now, back to a romance topic....let's see...
I'm debating between having a Qunari Female Rogue and a Human Female Rogue to start, but if Sera's only available to one or the other, it might sway me to choose whoever she's gated for.
You can't see a problem with a bloke having free rein over the women's change room? A women's change room full of half naked women?
Male restrooms have urinals, by the way. Unless you're suggesting they abolish urinals.
We also somtimes have the trough cant forget that!
The problem is because the term 'friendzone' implies that the only worthwhile relationship you can have with someone is a sexual one and if they knew a sexual one was never in the cards, they wouldn't have bothered at all. It's really a wretched thing to feel, like someone is only being nice to you because they eventually want in between your legs and if they knew that wasn't on the table, they'd have not even bothered doing that in the first place.
I have actually had people (it has happened 3 times in my life) walk away mid-conversation and mid-sentence the moment I mentioned I had a significant other/husband. Conversations that, prior to that point, were enjoyable and there was a basis for friendship. The moment I was not a prospect of sexual availability, they are no longer interested. 'Friendzone' is very insidious.
You can't see a problem with a bloke having free rein over the women's change room? A women's change room full of half naked women?
Male restrooms have urinals, by the way. Unless you're suggesting they abolish urinals.
Except he wasn't even a bloke when he used the woman's change room? He was female.
I'm bisexual, does that mean I shouldn't be allowed in the women's change room or bathrooms either? Ooohhh, I might get turned on watching other women apply make up and listening to them complain that a shirt is too big.
WON'T SOMEBODY PLEASE, THINK OF THE CHILDREN!?
In other news, today's cultural reference award goes to Jobac.
Well, think about how many types of bread there are. Now, apply that to gender and sexuality.
The problem is because the term 'friendzone' implies that the only worthwhile relationship you can have with someone is a sexual one and if they knew a sexual one was never in the cards, they wouldn't have bothered at all. It's really a wretched thing to feel, like someone is only being nice to you because they eventually want in between your legs and if they knew that wasn't on the table, they'd have not even bothered doing that in the first place.
I don't see how it implies that frienship isn't worthwile. For people who want something more, of course it isn't going to be as worthwile, for them.
I also don't see how it implies that people are only being nice in order to get sex, that's an assumption and nothing more.
I'll give an example from RL. When me and my gf thought the whole "race" thing was something we thought we couldn't work around (Her parents didn't want her dating a "white boy") I said something along the lines of "I still want to be your friend, whatever happens." to which she replied "No, I f that's the case I don't want to be around you, having these feelings and not being able to do anything about it, or seeing you with someone else it would hurt too much."
Was she feeling entitled to sex? Or only being nice to me because she wanted to get into my pants?
Except he wasn't even a bloke when he used the woman's change room? He was female.
I'm bisexual, does that mean I shouldn't be allowed in the women's change room or bathrooms either? Ooohhh, I might get turned on watching other women apply make up and listening to them complain that a shirt is too big.
WON'T SOMEBODY PLEASE, THINK OF THE CHILDREN!?
In other news, today's cultural reference award goes to Jobac.
Using Jorah is soo easy its almost cheating
Yeah and the funny thing is, girls get rejected too, but I have yet to hear them calling it 'friendzoning' and bitching about it like a 10-year old,
Friendzoning is such a stupid term, it should be called "being an a-hole".
Ok you guys, I think we shouldn't go off-topic again. This thread is supposed to be about dragon age.
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