Thing is, I *don't* necessarily dig those specific features. I'm also talking about them in aggregate. I see no more need to specifically point out his missing eye than I do him having horns. In short, I dig and want to see more "exotic, different, nonconventional, alien" or whatever else you want to call it. This includes a host of human and nonhuman features that fall outside traditional beauty standards.
Would it be fair to say that "outside traditional beauty standards" would include, not just exotic appearances, but something that is more, well, average or ordinary (for lack of a better term)?
What I mean is an unfortunate trend in Bioware games for the last couple of years has been the increase of Rule of Sexy, especially for its female characters. Characters which are not only beautiful, but near-inhumanely so, and with outfits designed more to emphasize that than out of any sort of practicality. Characters like Samara and Miranda and Jacob in ME2, and Isabela in DA2. Also the differences in leather armor appearances for men and women in DAO is rather eye-rolling.
Compare the appearance of Ashley Williams in ME1 to her in ME3, and you will see that she had been pretty blatantly "sexified" Kaidan too had been bulked up and made more handsome as well. But he at least got to keep a standar uniform as his outfit.
Anyway, not sure if this qualifies as an "unfortunate romance trope" but I thought it seemed appropriate.