But it is surreal. It feels strange to like something that others despise. I'm compelled to understand why I like it, and why others hate it. So I'm not trying to suppress these opinions; I'm trying to understand them. But it just so happens that I don't find many of them to be very persuasive. I agreed with some of them before the Extended Cut, but not anymore.
I can understand you feeling surreal. Unfortunately, trying to understand why others dislike the endings and even why you like it typically devolves into something else on the forums.
To maybe give you perspective on someone who doesn't like the EC endings...well, I'm not really sure if I can do that in writing. It would best over a few beers with someone and hashing it out. But I'll try with a simple explanation.
I believe I got too attached to the fictional character of Commander Shepard and wanted to see her live. The long answer would have to be over those beers because once talk of the starkid, the ending results and what they mean, plot holes or perceived plot holes; that seems to always devolve into people trying to prove they're correct and nobody learning anything.
To me, trying to sway someone on how to think with regards to a work of fiction is fairly ridiculous. I simply like Mass Effect...granted, in a somewhat modded form with fan-fiction stuff of others and my own. But to bash someone for using mods, or liking the original endings, or liking the extended cut...no. There is no point to that.
For those who don't enjoy Mass Effect anymore because of, well, whatever. Bummer. Hopefully they've moved on without issue.
Feel free to PM me CosmicGnosis if you do want to get more perspective. I've had some great back and forths with people in the "love the endings" crowd and I've enjoyed it. Those conversations have always ended with us agreeing that we love playing Mass Effect and none of that arguing garbage takes place.