I have not been moving anything. And have always argued that elves should be treated more fairly instead of being marginalized.
But when doing so, you have asserted that the Dalish haven't properly earned being treated fairly. Maybe you just don't see it that way, but you've all but outright said that until the Dalish meet certain requirements, they aren't really victimized enough to not be marginalized. When people have said the Dalish aren't able to resist effectively and keep resisting, you've countered that it makes their claims less genuine. When we've said that overcoming centuries of marginalization with bootstraps is ridiculous, you've brought up a "well, they started it" argument. When we've pointed out that the actions of a few don't represent the whole group's philosophy, you've countered with... well, you hold the humans to the same standards, or something. 
Nonviolence is ineffective for marginalized people, it's an ideal of colonizers because it nullifies the threat of a rebellion from mistreatment and makes any resistance much more ignorable due to its lack of actual change. Pretending that one raid on one village negates "innocent" victimhood, among a short list of other "offenses" is essentially saying there's no difference between resisting colonization and colonizing, which is outright ignoring the elephant in the room: which side outnumbers which again? Which side has the backing of Manifest Destiny and religious persecution of "heathens"? Does the fact the Dalish resisted initially really excuse or equalize things as they are now? I mean, if you're thinking that the Dalish shooting first is an absolute fact, it's kind of vital to acknowledge the context from their perspective, and not pretend that might makes right in the end. The balance of power shifted when the Dales were conquered, and it's stayed unequal since then with repeated justifications and excuses about how the Dalish essentially brought it upon themselves.
In other words, you're maintaining a very narrow definition of self-defense that the Dalish must conform to, and ignoring that the power imbalance is still in effect against the Dalish even when they're "aggressors" which is maintaining that they have no right to react (violently) to continued oppression by humans as a whole. One human village might not be at fault for the way the elves are treated, but by being human (especially on formerly Dalish lands) they benefit from the continued marginalization of the elves. It's apples and oranges. If the human village can be innocent victims, what about the Dalish clans that were and continue to be wiped out with whatever convenient excuses humans make up to justify it? Are they bad because one member has a (legitimate) grudge? Ten members? What number does it take for their victimhood to be revoked, for them to have deserved being attacked?
When you're not dodging the points made, you're maintaining that the Dalish aren't doing things properly according to your standards. Throughout this thread, to every fact presented you've countered using circular and flawed logic to assert that the Dalish are essentially doing it wrong when it comes to their methods of preserving their culture and ensuring their basic survival. Perhaps you could explain how you'd go about things in their shoes? Because if you can make a list of the mistakes the Dalish made in how they've reacted to the humans, it might be easier to see why you're so stuck on certain things.