I don't see what's awful about a homeland where the elves can finally have rights and freedoms that aren't permissible in the Andrastian kingdoms, particularly when the elves have had to endure this status quo under human rule for the better part of a millennia.
Elves coming into a homeland where they can live without fear of being killed en mass in purges (like the one in Denerim and Halamshiral), where the elves can strive to be more than mere servants, where the Dalish can follow their faith without persecution, where they can work to build a bright future for the Elvhen. I don't see this as abhorrent - not in the least.
You see "homeland" and apparently think about the end of history, with happy chickies, duckies, and bunnies, where nobody who matters loses out on anything and all the elves are happy.
I see "homeland" and I see an escalating cycle of violence chaining back thousands of years, where every single action anybody has ever taken can be construed as Oppression of the People - whatever that People might be. I see exclusion, because somebody has to define what the People are, and that means defining what the People are
not. I see forced resettlement and violence, because there has never been a situation anywhere in the world where the borders neatly match up with the way that actual people on the ground identify.
I see the sole justification for almost every single genocide that has ever occurred in the history of Earth.
Creating a national homeland doesn't solve problems, it creates more of them. Now, you might be okay with the whole ethnic-cleansing trip, and you might be okay with dividing the world up into exclusive little blocks that exist solely to hate each other for how they are different. I'm not.
The problem I have with this is that all of the races you mentioned already have homelands that are ruled by a racial majority, whereas elves live at the mercy of barbaric human overlords... Even the Dalish are merely tolerated and tend to wander simply because it isn't safe to settle anywhere for long. I think it's smarter to attempt to band together rather than spend your whole life in fear, and even enslaved in the case of most Tevinter elves. You're acting like this isn't the norm for every other nation in Thedas... as far as I know, the Qunari are the only group that allows for racial equality, but even then the tall, nameless giants tend to be the ones in power.
So, in every single post I've made, I've acknowledged - both implicitly and explicitly by now - that I understand that elves in Thedas face very severe problems, and I've stated that these problems are Not Okay and should be fixed somehow.
Which makes most of your post - your claim that I don't understand just how awful elves have it in most of Thedas, and how good humans have it - total nonsense.
I
fully understand how crappy elves have it. They are a Grade-A Downtrodden Minority. I have never denied this. So please stop throwing that in my face.
What I'm saying is that
although there needs to be
a solution to the problems plaguing elves as a whole, the creation of a national homeland for elves is almost undoubtedly going to make things worse. It won't give elves and humans less to fight about; it'll probably give them
more to fight about. It won't reconcile elves and humans; it'll probably divide them even further. It won't result in "elven culture" being saved, because there is no one elven culture, there are multiple versions of it that are irreconcilable under an explicitly national government. (What happens to Andrastian elves, for example?) And so on, and so on.
Others in this thread have suggested that we should avoid real-world examples out of fear of politicizing the topic, and I'm inclined to agree. But without naming names or pointing fingers, I will say that the creation of national homelands on Earth has historically been a violent, destructive process done in the name of a nationalism that I personally think doesn't even measure up to the value of a
single life, let alone the millions of lives that it's actually cost. Creating homelands for national communities has not made the people in those communities safer and more secure.
Obviously, then, if the creation of homelands is a stupid idea, but the current system also stinks, the current system needs to be
changed somehow in order to better the condition of elves. This will not be a simple or easy process, but it can be done if the historical precedent of Earth is anything to go by, and it
must be done, because both of the alternatives are horrifying.