I wasn't saying you supported it. I was asking if you supported it since parts of your posts sounded like such. Sorry if it seemed I was accusing you of it.
No problem at all.
Not really. I see the Chantry being just as flawed as any other faction in the DA universe. For example I don't agree with the current Circle system and hope to change that in Inquisition. But them following their beliefs of simply spreading said belief to those willing to listen is not a flaw, unless you consider the Dalish wanting to spread the Elven Pantheon belief to City Elves a flaw.
And the comparison isn't meaningless. I'm sure there were elves who lived outside of the Dales, and Orlais was just an example of such a place. If the Dales wanted to convert those elves but the humans in charge said no and kicked them out, I would understand them bringing protection when they tried again.
I see this more as a survival mechanism that could eventually be phased out if the Dalish ever manage to settle down somewhere. Right now, they don't have time to deal with religious infighting in addition to hunting, avoiding humans, dealing with hostile wildlife, etc. The life of a Dalish is not an easy one, and I'm not willing to accept that every aspect of their current culture must be present in a hypothetical new elven nation. The only problem is that unless the Dalish and City Elves work together, one group or the other will likely claim responsibility for their success... so it's a tricky situation all around.
Yes, we can agree on that. Though some thing apparently I don't want my favorite DA race to have a homeland, which is weird.
The elves are in a precarious position and there is no easy answer... even though we seem to agree in theory, I can understand why we have trouble coming to an agreement on how to unify such culturally distinctive groups. At least you are interested in a positive outcome for the elves, which is more than I can say for some.