Oh God no
I was just saying I wasn't being nasty. I wasn't even getting personal :S
Fair enough. 
I tend to be pretty chill most of the time. It sometimes is a little sad to me how much gamers bicker and fight among ourselves. We're all gamers, and in this case, we're all Mass Effect fans. Even for those that hate the way it turned out, it's obvious that the series meant enough to them for them to continue to post and talk about it.
That's what I try to focus on at least. I guess I'm a little altruistic as well as idealistic at heart. I grew up in a time where the most bickering usually was Sega versus Nintendo. 
I'm all for respecting others' choices and opinions but sometimes it's easier than others. Control, disagree with it as the solution, but people choose it, fair enough. Refuse, seen as the mother of all cop-outs by some, by others it's the one choice where you don't buy into the Starbrat's logic. Fair enough.
Synthesis though..... urgh, my only response to Synthesis is to close my eyes and hum real loud for 10 seconds until I can get the thought out of my head.... 
You know, Synthesis did make a little bit of sense to me. I can wrap my head around the concept of the singularity on a molecular level. I'll be the first to admit though the execution as shown in game made no sodding sense. How does that even?... Never mind.
Plus, the endings in general a lot more sense than the ending of one of my favorite old school games, Chrono Cross. At least ME3's info dump at the end didn't lead me into trying to figure out string theory, the various wormhole theories as well as quantum mechanics.
Seriously, check out the chrono compedium. It'll bake your noddle.
@Mike: When it comes to Anderson, that was how Elissa Shepard saw him. My first Shep (Kalya; Earthborn/War Hero) did not see him that way at all. She respected him as an officer and as a friend, but not a father figure. In short, it depends upon how I'm RP'ing at the time.