Okay. That's good to hear.
Why is it a bad idea? If one smart and skilled enough to achieve both, why should they be deprived of it?
I wouldn't say the Dalish/Werewolf one was a third option type of choice, since the choices are still "Break the Curse" or "Kill the Dalish". You just go a different way about it by seeking peace with the Werewolves instead of just killing them.
I feel like I'm saying the same thing over and over again in the hopes that it will be gotten.
All I said (before I got into a bit of a digression about my consumer relationship with Bioware) is that if they are trying to create a dilemma then adding a golden third option is a bad idea. By definition, it ceases to be a dilemma at that point. And dilemmas in video games are worthwhile because, unlike with more passive media, we can create scenarios where we actually have to make a choice in the context of a dilemma and then live with the consequences.
Nothing wrong with having a choice thats really a calculation where you try to find the single best way to do something, but a situation cannot have an objective best way and also be a dilemma. They are mutually exclusive.
As to your statement about being smart and skilled and earning your happy ending, Bioware doesn't do that. Or if they do, they do it poorly. Allan Schumacher weighed in on this earlier in the thread (and I'm not going to speak for him but I'm going to touch on what he touched on). Things like the ME2 ending, you aren't being extra smart and extra skilled when you get the perfect ending, you are simply playing more of the game. The things you have to do are by and large obvious, complete your loyalty missions and fully upgrade your ship, then simply pick logical teammates for various tasks. Thats not hard.
Other than that, its just take the same shooting and probing you've been doing the whole time. All you're doing is more of it. Now I don't mention this to say that the ME2 ending is bad, but it always bugs me when people talk about "earning" their happy ending particularly in a Bioware game.