@Ieldra2: While I do believe the greatest forms of self-control are connected to traditionally held values of moral virtue (having no bearing on whether or not they are spiritually moral)... I did include Tevinter as a model of self-control and I certainly consider them among the most vile groups to exist on Thedas (from what I have managed to extrapolate from games/books/etc.)
I am not telling you what you think, but may I suggest that - being a sensitive topic to you - you may sometimes see assertions of moral authority where there are none?
I will still assert that no matter how much people on the boards want to believe it, Bioware is making a very clear state that magic IS corrupting. That does not mean it is morally wrong, it does not mean that everyone who has magic is corrupted... it means, that a mage must take extra vigilance against forces arrayed against them that will corrupt their mind, body, spirit.
You can be morally corrupt, sure (my opinion - blood magic). But being an abomination is corruption of the body. Being possessed is corruption of the spirit. And it is a fact on Thedas that mages are more appealing to demons.
We could argue about the "ideal" state of a thing... but I'll just try to appeal to a "base line" of a thing. A mortal is not born an abomination... an abomination comes from a change - and a demon sees it as ascendance (vs. corruption). However - if you would not want to become an abomination - then the exercise of arguing whether%