Yes this! I might be a little more trollish about it at times but this is exactly my position on the Dalish problem.
Fenris pretty much echoes my thoughts on the dalish at times.
Pretty much that bullied kid at school who decides to be patronizing and arrogant towards other bullied kids. ****** your ass is being bullied too. You don't exactly have a leg to stand on.
But City Elves also use the term "flat ears." And Elvhenan was a nation, of course the city elves aren't part of it.
They use it for the dalish?
Edit: read the wiki lol it seems they're equally patronizing. That fits.
Dalish elves seek to recover, inherit and preserve the knowledge and sacred treasures of the two fallen kingdoms. They lead nomadic lives, wandering throughout Thedas. Their clans date back to the ruling clans of the Dales and the Dalish themselves are their descendants.
The Dalish elves and city elves in particular have a strange and bitter relationship, dating from the splitting of the People after the fall of the Dales. Some Dalish view their city brethren suspiciously and with pity as "flat-ears,"[16] culturally human elves who are no different "than their shemlen masters."[18] To some, they are seen as having given up on and forgotten their culture, and the hope is to teach these elves their past when a new homeland is founded.[19] Not all Dalish share this view of the city elves, however.
On the other hand, some city elves see the Dalish as near-myths: strange and savage "wood elves"[20] living far from humans and preying upon the unwary;[21] and yet somehow noble, as well.[22] To others, the Dalish are seen as "savages", primitive elves who refuse to see the promise of the alienage, and live off the land in ways the average city elf could not.[23] Indeed, city elves who choose to leave or live beyond the Alienage are labeled "flat-ears" as well by their city kin[16], ironically similar to how some Dalish view the Andrastian elves, and subject to violence or resentment from other city elves.
And yet, for all this uncertainty, city and Dalish elves still interact positively now and then. For Alienage elves who seek to leave their home due to desperation, poverty or abuse, wandering Dalish clans are often seen as a sort of "last resort" haven. They are normally willing to take in a refugee from the cities and to largely refrain from attacking a city elf on the road[24], despite their uncertainty, and train them in the ways of their Creators and culture.[25] Similarly, Alienages may take in a Dalish elf who has broken with their clan voluntarily or involuntarily.[26]
Elven mages tend to be grouped to the Dalish mindset along with city elves.[27] This is particularly the case as they have turned not only their lives but their magic over to the human Chantry and Maker, and the Circle of Magi, with the Circles being implied to have played a role in the fall of the Dales. [28]
Didn't all elves come from there? Looking it up in the wiki it says
Elvhenan, meaning "place of our people" in the elven language, was the civilization of the elves, or elvhen, in the time when elves were reportedly still immortal and the dominant race on the surface of Thedas. Elvhenan covered most of Thedas; particularly Ferelden, Orlais, and lands west of Orlais.[2]
Just because some were enslaved and moved means they weren't as part of the country when elves were still immortal as the current dalish are? Saying we're the last of the elvhenan pretty much is denying the CEs ancestors originated from there. Cause the current dalish elves aren't anymore Elvehenan than they are considering that place was nuked a while ago.
Honestly it'd be hilarious if the dalish originated from the noble rich classes and the CEs the lower classes/slaves. It'd certainly put that superiority in a different light.