But it does seem like people that write letters and make online petitions are in fact bothered when women are portrayed as super beautiful. People make jokes about women looking like barbie's and that is unrealistic and sexist but I never hear anyone care at all that all the super hero men are all 6'5' professional body builders. Nor should they care for that matter. It's odd when people argue in either direction, we are talking about cartoons, not real people.
Also how are men allowed more often to look a variety of ways? In real life or BioWare games?
There are people that speak out against the super hero men, too. The issue comes don't to prevalence. Women are almost *always* having to fit into some measure of attractive, and if they aren't larger groups of people feel a need to speak out against the less attractive ones.
I do think that there is much more flexibility in terms of how male characters look in our games (or gaming in general). DAI still fits this mold, even with "ugly" women. I also feel that attractiveness is a less significant influence in a man's life compared to a woman's, in real life. There's a lot more focus, at least in my experiences, for women to continue maintaining their attractiveness compared to men. In terms of what I see in commercials and even just media in general. I am starting to get grey hair, and it's so absolutely not an issue for me. Though that doesn't mean society doesn't place any pressure on men. Baldness, for example, is a common one (and seems to fuel a good amount of why Solas is ugly to some, from what I've seen).
But look at our cast of characters in DAI. I think there's much wider range in appearance among the male characters than among the female characters. So just another part of the slow moving boat that hopefully keeps turning.
I find Josephine and Leliana to be strikingly attractive in our game. Vivienne is also beautiful. I still find Cass very pretty, and Sera was maybe the one I was most "meh" to in terms of physical appearances, that all evaporated once I met her in my playthrough (I think she's awesome).