I kinda agree with this. But like other have said. If they had revealed every LI and sexual orientation three months ago I would have stopped following the game more or less. Truth be told the only thing I really care to know before the game comes out at this point is who the other two romances are and who is getting race gated.
I don't know, knowing that a character is an LI hasn't made me stop paying attention to them. If anything, I pay more attention to characters like Sera because I have a little more context for who she is now. If they'd all been revealed early, I think a lot of people would go "great, now I want to learn more about this character who I know I can romance."
My suggestion is don't reveal them at all. I prefer as some others have mentioned to discover who they are in the game. I like the mystery of that and it helps me to look forward to playing the game that much more. I'll be honest, I do not like how romances have been revealed for DA: I. It may just be me who thinks this, but it feels like too much of a focus has been put on romances for this dragon age game compared to prior ones. I think it's the fans and the media who have focused too much on it the most.
I enjoy bioware's romances, but it's not the main reason I play their games, and romances are not the meat of their games. I feel like the core aspects of this game are getting overshadowed by the romances. Seeing people constantly asking voice actors and Bioware developers if a certain character will be a love interest all the time is just silly in my opinion. I'm not trying to bash others for being excited about the romances, but it's just weird to me how this whole thing has played out over the past several months. Anyways, that is just my personal opinion and I hope Bioware rethinks how they handle romances in their future games and how they are revealed or not.
Again, I think that situation has been, if not caused, then definitely worsened, by revealing only some LIs. Since the LI options have been revealed so haphazardly, players don't know when or how they can expect to find out about the rest. So yeah, some people have been really overly demanding about the rest being revealed, but you can see their frustration, when the flow of information keeps switching between giant infodumps and months of nothing at all.
Having none at all revealed would have been nice, too. It would have been fun going into the game with no set plan or expectations about the romances. But since they have revealed most, it's just awkward and kind of frustrating that the remaining two are being held back.