There is a big difference between character customization and offering a single player and multiplayer experience. Character customization isn't actual gameplay.
There may already be games which offer multiplayer but this doesn't mean franchises gamers like should only always remain single player.
And what same courtesy? You are pretty much denying gamers who like both in their games to get multiplayer in the franchise they want because of no real reason. And no, I don't think multiplayer being offered with other games is a real reason. If optional multiplayer doesn't affect your single player experience in any way whatsoever there is no reason to not have it. The gamers who prefer a single player experience still have their single player experience even with optional multiplayer. Nothing is being taken away.
It works both ways for I and others who came into Dragon Age because it was and until now has been a "pure SP" franchise are now effectively being told by the developer:
"sorry your no longer making us as much profit as we would like so because we want more profit we are going to crowbar in a MP mode because we can make more money from the pro MP crowd You can either like it or get lost".
So for people like me who want a decent SP RPG that has Dragons and is available on PC What are we supposed to do ? Because right now Our only alternative is hope that maybe once every 4-8yrs Bethesda might decide to release a Elder Scrolls game.Due to the amount of money and time I have invested into both this Franchise and The PC to play it and a select few other games at 2K/4K on the highest settings and having paid for this game in full upfront(not putting down a $10 pre order then paying the rest on launch day)I'm not in a position to say "screw this I'll take my money elsewhere" so even though all the warning signs say "ME3 debacle round 2: The Dragon Age Edition) I have no choice but to hope Bioware is being truthful this time with their "assurances"
In effect we have had MP "forced" upon us because we have had to pay for content that we have no intent of ever using personally I'd rather they have a "2 Tier" pricing system where those who are going to use the MP pay the standard $60 and if you don't want the MP you get a version with it disabled/locked off for lets say $50/$55.
Its not an "entitlement" post more of a give us a option to play a franchise we love without having to pay for feature we'll never use similar to how the do "bolt ons" for cell phone contracts i.e if all you want is a calls and texts package that's all you pay for however if you'd like 4G internet well you can add that to your package for another $5( likely a bad analogy but at 1:45am its the best I can do tbh
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