I have a goal - close the Breaches.
Everyone's first option is: Join up! Travel to exotic locales! Win cool prizes!
Then it's: Keep your head down, stay out of our way, and thank the Maker someone else is strong enough to save your wretched hide.
And lastly: I really don't have time for you and your pathetic "cause" - I'm trying to save everyone.
So - I wouldn't say I'm ruthless, but I'm not pandering to whining cause heads about their personal bad days. They'll put those aside or be put down.
I have a feeling the:
Mages
Templars
and Briala (elves) if present
May pose obstacles that need to be crushed because I don't see them putting aside their causes and joining me