Can I just get the most-progressive-minded-god's-gift-to-the-repressed-Bioware to actually balance the genders in the playable character slate? Before even getting to the other stuff, that would be a nice start. Women can vote now, and stuff, you know.
I'll even grant all this discussion of "believable" characters, maybe I just don't like them very much. I don't like when people bottle up and bottle up and then BOOM, heads are flying, names are being taken, people are being executed. What little they do against that persuasion is why they have my interest in the first place.
It makes me tempted to view things like Leliana's "devotion" to the chantry as little more than blind zealotry to counter-balance her underlying passivity. Or would but Alistair had a few brain cells and been able to find a way to get what he wants, or something. Like what if he had just stabbed Logain in the back after the duel, if he was going to die anyway, instead he just cries and goes "we were lovers once" etc. etc. and then apparently goes and accepts his execution if you order it. Or, maybe, you know what, I hated Logain, and this is a really a bitter pill, but screw it I'm like King and all. Maybe the promise of incredible power and wealth would be like, I don't know, tempting? Logain himself was really the only one capable of real pragmatism.
They're overwhelming devotion to ideals makes them martyrs and heroes in some eyes, petulant children who whine when they don't get what they want to others.
Edit: You know, there are parts of them that are all right that I enjoy, but making the point here.