No?
I can do funny tricks too, the 9 central playable companions (which you are actually going to be around a lot of the time) are made up of 6 men, and Vivienne is a pretty masculine figure AFAIK. Are feminine common in any western video game? Anywhere? Please, show me a single example, aside from possibly TR.
Um, I think you are redefining feminine by a long shot. Bethany, merrill, Liara, leliana, Dawn Star. All Bioware Games, are women that dress feminine and are kind and empathetic. Nevermind that personality is not feminine/masculine inherently. Also your criteria for masculine is as broad as the sea, any mundane power, brashness, confidence, non feminine dressing in any sense, being rude, and generally capable.
While feminine must be kind, empathetic, dress and look feminine, and demure? That isnt the only way to be feminine. It is one type of character.
That would be like someone complaining all the men in dragonage are too feminine because they are not all like Sten, because being at all chatty is feminine trait and they are not all barrel chested men, and he hates compromise and doesn't get along easily like men are supposed to!
Saying Bethany is the only way to be feminine is like saying Sten is the only way to be Masculine, it is one type of character that is very exact and doesn't represent all of a huge group of people.