Straight Female- Iron Bull, Cullen, Solas(Elf)
Straight Male- Cassandra, Josephine
Gay Male- Iron Bull, Dorian
Lesbian Female- Sera, Josephine
Bisexual Male- Iron Bull, Cassandra, Josephine, Dorian
Bisexual Female- Iron Bull, Cullen, Solas(Elf), Josephine, Sera
This is what it is so far, right?
You realize that no matter what if we're guys for equality, no matter what we're screwed.
If Vivienne is available and straight gay males and lesbians have the least.
If she's bisexual then gay males have the least.
If she's a lesbian then both straight males and gay males have the least.
If it's Blackwall who ends up being available and straight then the straight male gamer, gay gamers, and lesbians get the least.
If Blackwall is bisexual then straight males and lesbians have the least.
If he's gay then once again it's straight males and lesbians who have the least.
No matter what there will be no equal ground.
From the get-go (not literally) we were told it would be 2-2-2 across the board with romances and then it wouldn't be even.
I wish everyone else would get what they want but as of now our expectations aren't being met in every single way.
It sucks, I know, but we will be able to get the one we hope for. The options that don't occur for others shouldn't be belittled though and they shouldn't be angry. They'll be sad, irritated, and bitter maybe but I think we should try to reduce the upset a bit.

I'm sorry if this doesn't make complete sense, I'm not good at wording things but I hope it's understood.