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#2751
daveliam

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The problem at the end of the day is that everyone wants as many options as they can possibly have, therefore they want their orientation to have the most representation. Which means someone has to be underrepresented sadly.


Which is why it would be nice to see a DIFFERENT group be underrepresented if it has to happen. Not the group that has been underrepresented in every game. (Not sure if underrepresented is the term I mean)

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LiaraShepard

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The problem at the end of the day is that everyone wants as many options as they can possibly have, therefore they want their orientation to have the most representation. Which means someone has to be underrepresented sadly. 

 

yes,but please not always the same groups...


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Pierce Miller

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yes,but please not always the same groups...

As a member of the group you're speaking of, I couldn't disagree more.



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LiaraShepard

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As a member of the group you're speaking of, I couldn't disagree more.

 

hä? So you like to always get the fewest options?



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Pierce Miller

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Which is why it would be nice to see a DIFFERENT group be underrepresented if it has to happen. Not the group that has been underrepresented in every game. (Not sure if underrepresented is the term I mean)

It wouldn't be nice for us, I'd rather see an equal spread in all honesty but that means the next revealed romance would be Vivienne and I still think someone would be angry with that.



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Pierce Miller

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hä? So you like to always get the fewest options?

No I'm straight, I always like getting the most options. But I do hope for an equal divide in choice.



#2757
daveliam

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It wouldn't be nice for us, I'd rather see an equal spread in all honesty but that means the next revealed romance would be Vivienne and I still think someone would be angry with that.


If Vivienne is straight then gay men and women get less options. If she is bisexual then gay men get the least options. The spread is not even.

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OracleofWar

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I'm not following your logic here. EVERYONE will have two ungated options, regardless of who the last LI is. Plus, some groups are going to get a third (and maybe fourth is Blackwall is the last Li and either straight or bi) race-gated option.


Okay, yeah, it is confusing.
What I'm saying is if Blackwall is the last LI and bi, this strengthens the argument that another male LI will be race gated, for just humans for this example. So, even though it looks like there are five male LI's, three for gay males and four for hetero females, the least number of choices in a playthrough is two, or if you play the 'right' race, three at the most.
And if Viv is the last one then it may be more unequal (dependent on other gating).
And also, even though he's ungated now, you have to take in account when they were deciding LI's, he was gated. It's only because recently and after a lot of work, he isn't. Perhaps this makes makes it unequal in some playthroughs, we shall have to see who is the last and the gated LI, but once, it meant that everyone probably had a limit of two on every playthrough, with the other race gates counting, and hetero females and gay male dwarves probably had only one.
But until we know who the last LI is and the final gated LI we cannot say it's unequal, because two different LI's with race gates may only equal one because of availability based on race, and that there will never be four LI's available for a hetero or gay Inquisitor due to race, but always two, and occasionally three in special circumstances, which won't be most playthroughs.

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This is why I'm expecting the last LI to be a straight or bi Viv. I have a hard time imagining straight men just having Cass and Josie.

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d-boy15

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So, I guess this is not about equality anymore... it's about "give me more"



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So, I guess this is not about equality anymore... it's about "give me more"

Only with some, don't lump us all in with the "I want the most options !" crowd. I just want everything to be equal.



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Pierce Miller

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If Vivienne is straight then gay men and women get less options. If she is bisexual then gay men get the least options. The spread is not even.

And if Blackwall is bisexual then straight men get the least.



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And if Blackwall is bisexual then straight men get the least.

 

It would be the first time ever.


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Ceoldoren

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It would be the first time ever.

Still praying for Blackwall. I can't take another disappointment. D:


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Pierce Miller

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It would be the first time ever.

So? Why does everyone else deserve special treatment?



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Yinello

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Guys we need to stop being so gung-ho on super equalness because that's simply not going to happen in this game anymore. At the best Bioware can do is not give straight females (elves) another option.



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Pierce Miller

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Guys we need to stop being so gung-ho on super equalness because that's simply not going to happen in this game anymore. At the best Bioware can do is not give straight females (elves) another option.

By making Vivienne the last romance and making her straight, which I more and more think is going to happen.



#2768
Ceoldoren

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Guys we need to stop being so gung-ho on super equalness because that's simply not going to happen in this game anymore. At the best Bioware can do is not give straight females (elves) another option.

It's not going to happen, that's true. But it should still be brought up that it should've happened.



#2769
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And if Blackwall is bisexual then straight men get the least.

 

I would not object to that.

As it is a logical reality that some people will get fewer options,

then it is acceptable that straight men may equally be a group impacted by that.



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No I'm straight, I always like getting the most options. But I do hope for an equal divide in choice.

 

Agree i'd prefer equality of choice(dislike all this gating and move away from da2 approach) but definitely not down with this well because you've had more options in the past you should get less now stance.



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So this talk about asexual and demisexual representation made me wonder:

 

Don't demisexuals and asexuals have another sexual orientation as well?  Like, couldn't you be demisexual and only interested in opposite sex partners?  Or asexual and only interested in same sex partners?

 

If so, then this particular aspect of their sexuality would still need representation (being demi- or a-), but they are still getting representation with the straight, bisexual, or gay romances in some capacity, right?

 

I'm just not familiar enough with these sexualities so it would be helpful if someone who understands them better could explain it to me.  We can do it off-board in a PM if you don't want to derail the thread.

 

Asexuality and demisexuality are already orientations. In most cases to define the genders attraction it is use the romantic definition or in other cases the sexual one but it is not a rule. This is because even if you are asexual in any scale you can have sexual attraction.

As a demisexual I always felt represented in some parts, at least in the romantic side. To me character like Alistair, Merril and so on, sometimes to seems to fall on the ace scale but they are not acknowledge. That is why I think when people complain about the sexual ambiguous characters they forgot that making everyone bisexual can erase other's sexuality, a character can be attract to all the gender and not be bisexual. In therm of equality I think think DA 2 was the best approach in therms of representation, it was not.

 

And I think a dev already said that the romance do not need to be sexual to be full realize. Which is kinda cool but I am still waiting for someone like Sebastion to be represented without the religious chaste thing because he was indeed heterosexual, it could had been a good opportunity to represent some aces, oh well.



#2772
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So? Why does everyone else deserve special treatment?


Because according to your logic, only straight men should get special treatment, right?
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#2773
LiaraShepard

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So? Why does everyone else deserve special treatment?

 

everybody else (I guess you mean lesbian and gay gamer) never got special treatment whereas straight male gamer got always the most LI's (besides DA2 where everyone got the same amount of options, beside straight females). The option can't be equal anymore since it's only one LI left. It's only fair to give it a minority, after Solas was given to a majority.



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Pierce Miller

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Because according to your logic, only straight men should get special treatment, right?

It's been shown that the most played romanceable characters are straight females, So yeah if there's more of us then that just makes sense.


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#2775
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It's not going to happen, that's true. But it should still be brought up that it should've happened.

 

I agree but if Bioware doesn't get the message now, I'll be confused. xP