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#2801
Yinello

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Oh god, we're back to "We suffered in the past so now you should have to!" You can't fight for equal representation when your answer is to provide more unequal representation.

 

Literally no one said this. We think it's nice if for this one game the LGBT group was the group to get ONE (literally one) more option than the straight group.


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Pierce Miller

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why not? why do you always want more than the others?

Because I'm not the others.



#2803
Ceoldoren

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I can see this is about to breakdown into a fight. Let's cool out jets guys. Pierce is right to some degree. I'm all for more gay options. But Inequality is not the answer to inequality.


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#2804
Pierce Miller

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Literally no one said this. We think it's nice if for this one game the LGBT group was the group to get ONE (literally one) more option than the straight group.

Which is exactly that person's argument



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SnakeCode

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Not really, if Blackwall is gay for example, this would make 3 hetero, 3 gay/lesbian and 2 Bi/Pan. If anything the bisexuals and pansexuals are getting less.

Not really, depending on which sex they are, bisexuals get some of the straight and gay LIs as well.



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And this is why I don't like equality being reduced to a numbers game.

this is why i'm staying out of it and watching and acting as a Ninja  :ph34r:



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Pierce Miller

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I can see this is about to breakdown into a fight. Let's cool out jets guys. Pierce is right to some degree. I'm all for more gay options. But Inequality is not the answer to inequality.

Thank you. I know I can be hot-headed at times but I'm not trying to cause a fight. Just raising a point.


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#2808
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Yeah it worries me that everyone's idea of equality is giving straight people less choices.

 

If the demographics of their audience mean they move away from pure equality i can understand that decision even if i'd prefer a pure equality approach.

However the lets make a statement reasoning i find very uncompelling.



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Tytelr

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It's been shown that the most played romanceable characters are straight females, So yeah if there's more of us then that just makes sense.

Jeez, I don't even know how to debate someone that has such ridiculously discriminatory logic.
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I can see this is about to breakdown into a fight. Let's cool out jets guys. Pierce is right to some degree. I'm all for more gay options. But Inequality is not the answer to inequality.

 

But there is already inequality from the hetero romances. If anything, they are sure getting more than others, so I do not get his statements at all.



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LiaraShepard

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Which is exactly that person's argument

 

well, at least she doesn't want gay and lesbian gamers to always get the most options (only one time)...you however say exactly this: straight gamer deserve always more because you're straight as well.


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Oh god, we're back to "We suffered in the past so now you should have to!" You can't fight for equal representation when your answer is to provide more unequal representation.


It can't be equal at this point but it's apparently a sin to prioritize gay men getting the extra option over straight men.
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this is why i'm staying out of it and watching and acting as a Ninja  :ph34r:

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Tytelr

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I vote to move this topic to posting more adorable gifs.



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Yinello

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Which is exactly that person's argument

 

Receiving one less option isn't punishment for whatever. Being able to romance 3 instead of 4 characters doesn't mean Bioware came to your door and kicked your dog. The characters they made simply preferred other people.



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Pierce Miller

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well, at least she doesn't want gay and lesbian gamers to always get the most options (only one time)...you however say exactly this: straight gamer deserves always more because you're straight as well.

Not really, I'm just saying I'll always be biased because I want more options. At the end of the day equality is what we all want but it isn't equal if someone else gets more. One more option isn't too bad though I'll concede that.



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I can see this is about to breakdown into a fight. Let's cool out jets guys. Pierce is right to some degree. I'm all for more gay options. But Inequality is not the answer to inequality.

 

Pierce would be correct if we were saying that we want them to intentionally give straight people less options because they got more options in the past.

 

We are not.  We are saying that we want equal options but they chose not to do that.  So, given this circumstances, we just don't want to get the least amount of options AGAIN. 

 

Those are different concepts yet some people continue to either miss that point or choose to ignore it.


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#2818
Pierce Miller

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Receiving one less option isn't punishment for whatever. Being able to romance 3 instead of 4 characters doesn't mean Bioware came to your door and kicked your dog. The characters they made simply preferred other people.

2 for me actually.



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How about we not prioritize anyone ? Whats done is done for this game and it can't be fixed. But we need to strive for equality in the next Bioware game, not more options than straight people.


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Inequality isn't equality if it's answered with inequality

 

 

Well then obviously I can't empathise.

 

 

You can't empathise because you always got the most options but when someone says they'd like one more gay for once, you go all like the first post.

 

Does not compute.



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Pierce Miller

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How about we not prioritize anyone ? Whats done is done for this game and it can't be fixed. But we need to strive for equality in the next Bioware game, not more options than straight people.

this is exactly my point, we can't have equality if we everyone wants more and thinks they deserve more, I've even admitted that I want more and I know this is wrong. 


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So how about that Josephine? Nice lady, not all involved with this quickly spiralling subject... Dorian seems nice but only because Tevinter interests me.
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Pierce Miller

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You can't empathise because you always got the most options but when someone says they'd like one more gay for once, you go all like the first post.

 

Does not compute.

True, but I don't deserve less now because I had the most before.


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#2824
SnakeCode

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Literally no one said this. We think it's nice if for this one game the LGBT group was the group to get ONE (literally one) more option than the straight group.

It seems to be the general feeling and motivation behind certain posts though. 

 

I personally couldn't care less if every LI was gay or bisexual, that's not why I spoke up, it's the reasoning behind it that I take issue with. People who claim to be fighting for equality that seemingly wouldn't give a damn if the shoe were on the other foot.

 

Another reason I disagree with this stance is I don't understand why straight players are the ones to be "punished," surely the developers of the game/s are to blame for the past inequality?


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#2825
Yinello

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2 for me actually.

 

Currently everyone except straight female Elves has 2 options. The next one might add a few slots but some groups will be left alone. Straight guys won't be the only one with just 2 options. That's not an injustice towards you. It's how Bioware cut the pie.