The amount of people in the forums that seem to think DA is a dating simulator is surprisingly high.
Romance is a big part of the game to some, but it's not all the game has to offer guys..
It is, however, hilariously easy to chitchat about with almost no information.
Unlike talking about classes (that we don't know how they'll 'feel' when played yet), arguing about mages and templars and dalish (there will be new information soon, and in the meantime, we're chasing our tails), or talking about quests we haven't played yet.
What I'm saying is that there's kind of a limit to what you can talk about with Dragon Age: Inquisition. Since we haven't actually played the game.
But now we can sure say "Hey, Blackwall, he's in. And they sure added 2 love interests for the elf gals at the last moment. Sup with that?"