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[Inquisitor Recon]

You could multiply the pages by a factor of 10 if it was a dating standards thread for LIs on the Inquisition boards tbh.

Proof the Inquisition boards have no standards tbh.

[Dova]

Poor OP  15 pages of "advice"

This isn't the forum to go for dating advice, everyone should know that. 

[A Crusty Knight Of Colour]

This isn't the forum to go for dating advice, everyone should know that. 

 

Fi-

 

This isn't the forum to go to for dating advice, everyone should know that. 

 

Okay, now it's fixed.

[TheClonesLegacy]

This isn't the forum to go for dating advice, everyone should know that. 

We're the prime innovators of Quarian sweat and bum bums.

How anyone would think that I'm not sure. Though Tarek makes alot of Political threads, so I guess he just doesn't understand this forum at all.

[This is the End My Friend]

Nah, no ponies yet.

 

[Dova]

Okay, now it's fixed.

It's a sad time when you're all out of likes..

[agentdalecooper]

Hi all...

 

as you can all see im a nice good looking guy, I have a nice job and im a little nerdy and i love pets .... but im 30 .. and im still single : /

 

its not from a lack of trying

 

in the now 2.5 years of my "dating " experience I have probably went out/seen over 40 guys... before this time I was practically a priest, cause being gay/bi here is not OKA  

 

but here is the REAL problem, no one wants a relationship, all the guys i find online are just looking for fun which is not bad but ... online is all i have for now.....

 

I just want to meet a nice guy IN THE military ... that's my only standard but so far I have found none ....

 

I'm trying to move to the "big city" ... maybe I will have more luck there

 

I just want to go out and MEET real people in real time, this online business is really starting to frustrate me to no end

 

so whats YOUR standard

 

what do you guys/girls look for in a guy/girl ?!!

 

are you in singlevile like me ?!!

 

and lets be civil we don't want to freak out the mods

 

 

Singleville isn't a bad place to be. You don't need a relationship to be happy.

 

Relationships should augment your life. Not be the only thing to it.

 

I think ask yourself if your standards are too narrow?  No offense, if you like military guys then you like military guys. But if that's the only guy you'd consider dating then you may have heavy restrictions.  So ask yourself what you like about military guys. The uniform? The discipline? The strength? The ability to work under stress? I am just shooting out generalities here. 

 

What other occupations require guys like that? Extrapolate. What hobbies require that kind of personality? Extrapolate.

 

Basically the more you date the more you expand your horizons and see what stuff is non negotiable and negotiable.  Stuff that mattered a few years ago doesn't matter to me now.  Before I wanted to find somebody who was really similar to me.  When I was in my early 20s what mattered to me was finding a tall guy with facial hair who liked metal, was nerdy, and played video games. 

 

Then I  dated a clean shaven guy a bit shorter than me who never touched video games, didn't listen to metal, but he loved going outside and camping and whatnot.  And that got me to open to outdoor activities like rock climbing and mountaineering.  And so then my dating options expanded because dating somebody who wasn't a clone of me actually increased my own quality of life.

[breakdown71289]

I have a feeling this is going to turn into a MEGA thread.

[This is the End My Friend]

I actually somewhat curious how many *likes* I have left to give out, probably a lot still. So come to me everyone for your fix. 

 

 

P.S. Just shelled out another 20+ likes, still going strong. 

[This is the End My Friend]

Singleville isn't a bad place to be. You don't need a relationship to be happy.

 

Relationships should augment your life. Not be the only thing to it.

 

I think ask yourself if your standards are too narrow?  No offense, if you like military guys then you like military guys. But if that's the only guy you'd consider dating then you may have heavy restrictions.  So ask yourself what you like about military guys. The uniform? The discipline? The strength? The ability to work under stress? I am just shooting out generalities here. 

 

What other occupations require guys like that? Extrapolate. What hobbies require that kind of personality? Extrapolate.

 

Basically the more you date the more you expand your horizons and see what stuff is non negotiable and negotiable.  Stuff that mattered a few years ago doesn't matter to me now.  Before I wanted to find somebody who was really similar to me.  When I was in my early 20s what mattered to me was finding a tall guy with facial hair who liked metal, was nerdy, and played video games. 

 

Then I  dated a clean shaven guy a bit shorter than me who never touched video games, didn't listen to metal, but he loved going outside and camping and whatnot.  And that got me to open to outdoor activities like rock climbing and mountaineering.  And so then my dating options expanded because dating somebody who wasn't a clone of me actually increased my own quality of life.

 

An on-topic post in this mess, what the heck. Haha.

[agentdalecooper]

I know, right?

 

That is rarer than a leprechaun and a pot of gold.