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#26
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Well since I'm about 100 years old, have more drama in my life than a week of Days of our Lives episodes, and have pushed away anyone who ever cared about me it's single living for me. I got my vids, music and this silly forum so it's not so bad. Hang in there dude things have a way of working themselves out in the end. 



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You don't go out and find love, love finds you! 


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I am the Shogun of the Almighty Samurai Cat Empire, i have many so called "Wives"



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THIS I don't understand, but of course if a girl is willing to lower herself to be used like that then she is to be blamed as much as the guy. A pity that some girls have no pride or dignity, I say if a guy like you came up to me he would get the boot right away.

its easy to understand ….if your a good looking man ..woman will want to sleep with you…



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Sir, let me tell you, people suck. Live life alone with a cat (or 2 or 8) and you will be happy. That's what I plan to do at this point. I've given up on going out of my way to find someone.



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its easy to understand ….if your a good looking man ..woman will want to sleep with you…

 

I doubt it.. good looks alone wont help you. If you're a good looking guy but your personality sucks, then what use is your good looks to me? Nada, zip, nothing. I always go for personality first and of course there has to be some attraction as well so some good looks is necessary too but if you love someone's personality then that will shine through to that persons outer looks and make him/her look very attractive.

 

 

Edit: And those women you are talking about, they are most like very desperate.


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THIS I don't understand, but of course if a girl is willing to lower herself to be used like that then she is to be blamed as much as the guy. A pity that some girls have no pride or dignity, I say if a guy like you came up to me he would get the boot right away.

Big assumption that the woman was being used. Males aren't the only gender looking for booty, especially at a night club. Women like to have sex too. Krogan remember to be careful and strap up though.

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1. If you practice good hygiene, dress well and carry yourself with confidence then you will do far better on the dating scene than if you do not do these things.

2. Different people look for long term commitments at different times in their lives. That being said, the casual dating scene is one of the worst places to look for a long term commitment. What you want is someone who will complement or complete you but has an overlap of shared interests. Deteermine what is important to you, find out where like minded people frequent and hang out there.

3. If there isn't a place, start a group on social media such as Meet Up. At worst, you will meet people with a shared interest.

4. There are always internet dating sites. Don't limit yourself to one. Choose several.
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I'm 22, married, and absolutely miserable. If I wasn't so sure there'd be an epic custody battle over my son, I would be so gone...

My advice: Stay single, and stay happy.  Live your life. Do it for this stranger on the internet .


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Well personally I'm still single and looking for a serious relationship, but eh, I'm sure it'll happen sooner or later. The thing is to just have hope and know that with time and perseverance, you can get what you need in life. Good point though OWA. Personality is so important to have that if you're just handsome or pretty, the rest is just ugly, and shows how little you understand about what it means to have a meaningful relationship with someone.  


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I doubt it.. good looks alone wont help you. If you're a good looking guy but your personality sucks, then what use is your good looks to me? Nada, zip, nothing. I always go for personality first and of course there has to be some attraction as well so some good looks is necessary too but if you love someone's personality then that will shine through to that persons outer looks and make him/her look very attractive.

 

 

Edit: And those women you are talking about, they are most like very desperate.

your not getting it ..im not talking about a relationship I'm talking about whoopee, 


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Big assumption that the woman was being used. Males aren't the only gender looking for booty, especially at a night club. Women like to have sex too. Krogan remember to be careful and strap up though.

 

It has nothing to do with liking to have sex or not, it's the idea of just taking a woman home for the night, sleep with her and then give her the boot right after but I did say that the women was to blame as well, if you had read everything I wrote you would have seen that...



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Again you are assuming that the woman isn't under the same mindset as krogan and isn't only looking for a quickie just like him.

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your not getting it ..im not talking about a relationship I'm talking about whoopee, 

 

I am getting it, I am just saying that I dont understand those one night stands where the guy OR the woman just goes for sex for a single night and then goes their separate ways. Yeah I had my share of them some years ago so it's not that but I would never do it because of those experiences I had. It's cheap and I would much rather have a guy who loves me and whom I can trust isn't having sex with several other girls or whom I know isn't just using me for my good looks or for my body but he is there because he wants me for me.


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Again you are assuming that the woman isn't under the same mindset as krogan and is only looking for a quickie.

He is just going for a quickie, he said that himself. And I never said that the woman wasn't thinking that way as well, I just said that she was cheap to think that way.



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Dating Standards of mine:

what I look for in Personality:
Funny
Kind
Caring
Compassionate
Lovable
Humor
Supportive
Doesn't take defeat in gaming seriously
Talker

that's how I found my boyfriend Daniel on IMVU. he had all those traits I was looking for. plus he's been spending time with me for past three weeks a couple of nights ago. he's quite shy person when it comes to me talking about him with rest of other girl friends lol. even I have introduced him to the girls. ^_~

I'm happy to have him. he's actually great person.

and.. it doesn't matter what height a person might be, personality is what counts.
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Be safe and go have fun op



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He is just going for a quickie, he said that himself. And I never said that the woman wasn't thinking that way as well, I just said that she was cheap to think that way.

Okay now i get you.

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Really OP? Go to docks, buy prostitute, stop telling everybody your life story on the BSN.


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You don't fall in love with a list of trait, but with a human being. Geez



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I've always been polite, open and honest. In-fact I had a lot of girl problems because of this, jealousy rose pretty quickly just from me being kind to another girl and hanging out with girls who are friends. In Asia, like as a friend and like like appears to be an alien concept here. My girlfriend got seriously upset that I "liked" another girl.

 

I've always been honest and she asked me if I liked her. I said yes I like her. I meant I like her as a friend, but my girlfriend perceived it as me actually fancying another girl. Even girls who are friends get jealous of me talking to another girl as a friend. Honestly farang men, Thai girls get very jealous.

 

I'm half Thai with pale skin which are quite attractive traits in Thailand and actually boosts my "attractiveness".

 

In England however, I'm just a "china boy".



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So is this forum turning into eharmony? 


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So is this forum turning into eharmony? 

 

Christian Mingle > Blackplanet > Eharmony



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Christian Mingle > Blackplanet > Eharmony

Link please.



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Link please.

^^