I wouldn't say that.
Men just like to pretend they don't like the romance genre. 
The marketing is strictly aimed at women. The dialogues and characters are tailored for a straight female sensibility.
If you go to any Diana Gabaldon Q&A for Outlander, which isn't even the most romancey of the romance genre literature, the audience is overwhelmingly female. In weddings and Valentine's Day, the marketing is for the straight female.
Now, if we are talking about other genres such as action or mystery or scifi, yeah straight women have their grievances. But to sit and pretend like straight women aren't privileged in the romance genre and anything related to romance content in games, is bullshit.
Category romances - Mills and Boon, Harlequin - are primarily bought by women. This doesn't mean men dislike romance; it means men tend to avoid books that are heavily marketed to women.
Most fiction marketed to men tends to have romance in it as well.
Where did I say men disliked romance? I said the romance genre strictly catered to women in a response to a commenter who made it seem like straight females having double the romance options was only fair for the disadvantage straight women have in gaming.
And in the fiction marketed to most men women are very little besides a trophy at the end of the story or scaffolding for male development. Romance is usually a sidestory in any books marketed to men.
I also wouldn't blame those men for not buying books that clearly don't market to them.
Look at The Witcher. How can you possibly blame women and gay players for not buying a game that is clearly marketed to straight males with a womanizing, grim middle aged straight male protagonist?
I tend to prefer games with better choice for that reason and it's why the omnisexual characters from past games didn't bother me. Gay males got a handle bar mustache and Iron Bull, which people don't seem to understand is simply not of a romance option for people who aren't into inter-species romance, especially in the case of Iron Bull where his physique is completely alien even by Qunari standards -- he's wider and even bulkier than other qunari males.