Sure, BioWare can be better. BioWare could have been worse though, too.
I can understand the outcry from both sides, but seriously: BioWare has given us more LGBT-content than most other games in the industry have given us. It's ok to be upset, because you feel not represented enough, but honestly? I don't think something like this would have been possible 20 years ago (with so much positive feedback, I mean). Having at least 2 LIs' for every lesbian, gay and straight protagonist is such a huge progress already. If it's going to continue like this, these games will only get better with giving us such content over time.
I'm not saying everybody should just shut up about these issues, because everybody has more options than 10 years ago, or so. I'm just saying that it's not perfect right now, but its getting better, it's getting there. Don't be rude to the devs, because you're disappointed.
I remember, I was so happy when I found out there were bisexual romances when I got Dragon Age Origins. The game was a gift for me and I didn't know anything about the gameplay. Finding out about this content by myself was such a pleasent experience, simply because I've never expected to be represented in a game.
And to the male straight players who seem to be really upset: It's totally ok to be upset. It's ok to be a bit angry, too. I mean you had your expectations and you hoped they would come true. It's ok to have feelings about this issue.
What is not ok is saying things like "This is sexist, because I can't romance a female elf". See, the majority of games in the entire rest of the industry is targeted towards you. Games where you play a straight male, who gets the chick.
BioWare is now ONE company, that gave a group of - normally underprivileged - players more content.
You cannot be discriminated, because you are not discriminated. You have just as many options as gay males and females. The rest of the industry is focused on heterosexual males. Any other game. Let straight girls be happy for once. For once. This just SO rude, man.
Imagine a (straight) boy eating a cake and a (straight) girl eating a cookie (she wanted cake though). The boy could eat that cake his entire life, everyday. Everybody gave the boy a cake whenver he wanted. The girl only got a cookie. Then ONE day someone gave the girl a cake and the boy a cookie. The boy could have just got another cake from someone else - everybody gives him cakes after all - but no. The boy starts to cry about inequality.
Oh and every other sexual orientation would either get a chocolate chip or nothing, if you wanted to generalize this post towards the entire industry.
It's super rude to talk about your own oppression when you're actually the privileged one, okay? Keep that in mind. Be emotional, be sad, but don't go to the "straight males are discriminated" route. The route doesn't even exist.,. geez...