I'm certainly not going to boycott this game just because I'm pissed at the Romance options its only a nice feature for me
but what Bioware did is unfair thats just a fact
Back when BG2 came out, and all I got was Anomen, while male player characters had Aerie, Viconia, or Jaheira, I thought it was unfair. It didn't even *occur* to me to ask for lesbian romances at that time, I was just sad that female characters had one option.
Over time, I got used to feeling marginalized, or being an afterthought, as a player of a female character, who wanted diverse romances.
Now I'm still sad that I didn't get the romances I wanted, but it is what it is. I registered for the original Bioware forum back when I was pregnant with my kid, who is now eleven. The more things change, the more they stay the same.
This time around I'm happy for the players whose straight female Inquisitors have tons of choices. But I'm still sad about the limitations, that, as usual, preclude me from romancing my first or even second choice.
Eventually, *if* you continue to be in the group with fewer choices, which isn't even guaranteed, you'll just shrug it off and carry on.