One could say that, but how is the terribly skewed DAI position better?
I don't really care. I for instance have 1 person in DAI I like, and it's allright. I mean, I don't care about race or gender, but one might say I have even more troubles with LIs because I have some other standards for them, more complicated than their gender or looks. So I could've ended up forever alone despite being so "open-minded" and not caring for most of the stuff that people here care for. What, I can complain that I don't like Cullen or Blackwall and since I'm straight irl I don't have someone to romance? Nope, absurd. I have 8 people to choose from. We all have.
People are just being greedy here. What, someone expected to have 8 LIs all for themselves? When someone romance all of the companions, he does it for an achievement or just because he can, meaning - doesn't enjoy it, doesn't really like all of them either way.
I can also say that Solas doesn't count and Cullen counts as half of romance, lol. 
People will always want more. It's ok it's just our nature. But there's a line between wanting something and complaining if you don't have "enough", it will never be enough - people will always whine about something because you can't please everyone no matter how hard you tried.
I.e. people wanted gay romances, we had Zevran. People hated Zevran calling him too slutty and such. We had DA2, people still complaining that Anders who's not that slutty doesn't feel right and should've stay as hetero. Now they're complaining about Iron Bull being ugly and Dorian being stereotypical.
People hated Morrigan for being too arrogant and caring for herself. In DA2 we had Isabela and Merrill, who both were girly in their own way, and both were too-something girly (too-cute and too-slutty). And now they're complaining they wanted to romance Aveline! In DAI we have Cass and Jossie who represent both girly and strong women - and they're still complaining!
This sh*t will never end.