I hated him from my second playthrough.
My first playthrough was seeing everyone in the way I was supposed to for a first playthrough but my second playthrough was more looking deeper.
Eamon and Maric are the top two of crappy dads and it made it worse. Loghain came off as more sympathetic to me.
Did Maric really think Eamon would actually look after Alistair? Maric would have been far better off sending Alistair to a family that doesn't have children so he would have been treated like a child should have been treated.
And I don't give a damn about Eamon or Isolde. Both of them allowed a child to live in the stables. Alistair himself says he was locked in a cage for a day. I'm sorry - what kind of people not realise they had not seen a child for nearly a day?
Then Alistair was sent to the Chantry which in return caused him to be conscripted by the Duncan.
I truly do not like Eamon for his attitude toward Anora (who is awesome in her own way) and of Alistair. I had noticed that whenever Eamon announces that Alistair will be King - Alistair protests and Eamon scolds him like he is a child for not standing up for his duties and I actually have the urge to wish that I could mash a button and slap Eamon.
Of course Alistair is going to protest over being the King - He was taught all his freaking life that he was not going to become a King, that he was never going to get anywhere near the the Throne! What the hell did that old man expect Alistair to do? Jump for joy that he was going to get his hands on the Throne?
The funny thing is - I always ask Alistair (away from Eamon) what does he think. He admits to my warden that he does think he would make a good King (especially if hardened) which is why I find it funny when people protest that Alistair doesn't want to become King.
He only protests when people assume he will take the throne without asking him. By asking him - you are listening to what he think.
If I had my way - I would have gladly left Eamon and Isolde to rot in a nearby ditch, gave Connor lots of cuddles, assuring him that he was going to be fine, gave Teagan the Job of being the Arl since he proved to be the more decent sort and allowed Alistair to choose his path for himself.
Unfortunately game requires me to save Eamon's ass. Who cares he is the late King's mother's brother. He clearly has no respect for women if Anora is not suitable to rule and this makes me question what would have happened if Rowan had not died at the time Maric had disappeared? Would he have pushed to get his own sister off the Throne and make Calian the King as soon as possible?
I understand that Maric wanted to keep Alistair safe - as supporting Fiona's wishes but holy - could he have not found a family that would have not lead to this whole bloody situation? I find it really ironic that by sending Alistair to Eamon, he has directly put his son in front of the bloody throne.
Plus it doesn't help that I feel slimy whenever I come across Eamon. I don't know what it is but I get this way more with my female wardens that I do with my male wardens *shudders*
So Alistair is either King with Queen Cousland or my wardens (if they survive FB) as his Chancellors or He dies in the FB or he stays as a Grey Warden while Anora gets the throne. (And Eamon can stay in his old home, far away from Alistair as possible)
And the most ironic thing is - Alistair is actually safer as a King in Inquisition *sighs*