When I finished ME 3 the first time, I was literally motion- and speechless, sitting in front of my monitor and staring into the void for several minutes.
Basher,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Mine exactly -- in fact you took me on a road to nostalga. Though this is a video game, I recall other emotional "hits" in my past like 911, when the Challenger exploded, and a few others. As one philosopher said "we write to know we're not alone". Good to compare notes -- and I've been reading page 19xx of this forum to discover others with the same feelings & observations -- that reveal that you & I are not just off the wall.
As well-said by others on this thread, this is not just some self-contained movie or book we can easily discard. MEU represents literally years of our lives & emotional commitment that is not so flippantly flushed down the commode. Those that try – will be ignored.
It is blatantly clear to me that those who "have no problem with the endings" are in fact UPPER-LEFT brain dominant & can’t relate to others having different points of view. As far as they are concerned:
“what’s the matter with you guys? Reapers dealt with – problem solved – go on”.
In the entire trilogy Shep was not permitted to discover anything to defeat a reaper invasion. Yes, he stopped an invasion but defeating an in-progress invasion is quite another thing. IMO, all our work to unite the galaxy served only two things (1) build & deliver the crucible and (2) provided military support to reach the beam. Military writers would scoff at not discovering anything about your enemy other than “we are the vanguard of your destruction”.
I recall one conversation I had with my “shrink” sister. A line I remember went something like this:
“we’ve never been inside anyone else’s head – so we naturally expect them to think & arrive at the same conclusions we do. Not until they gain enough experience – do they value others’ opinions”.
One book I’ve read “The Way To the Top-Donald Trump” emphasizes that life is too short for someone to be self-contained – you therefore MUST have other folks’ input – and the entire book is about soliciting others input (their replies).
There will NEVER be a consensus in any game EVER. Marketing rules will laugh at you. Even on this forum there is not a single MEU character that is not royally hated by dozens of people (I’ve been reading so argue is pointless).
There are no shortages of good ideas to Band-Aid a 4th (actually 5th) ending. If Coca-Cola was not quick to respond to their paying customers’ outrage (the [blundered] new taste of coke), they would be chapt-11. BW apathy is in question here. Even if they tried & screwed it up – it would at least be a smart business gesture to future buying customers.
I find it quite amusing that those with THOUSANDS of posts advise us to "move on".