im talking about all of it, the dwarves and elves were coexisting in peace and humans started the drama as soon as they showed up, as barbarians, as the tevinter imperium and now when they are enslaving and torturing or driving them off . How havent they tried to? Thats exactly what they are trying to do but humans keep invading them, Why should elves be relegated to living on the fringes(as if humans wouldnt brutalise or drive them off wherever they go anyway) or as slaves to humans? Ugh how are they supposed to retain their culture while letting go of the past their culture is based upon. Thats like saying to a religious person, you can be a christian as long as you let go of the christian history, culture, the bible, jesus and all the history that goes along with it,.
As for the dales, the chantry was just itching for an excuse to start an exalted march.
I like how you automatically equated a religious person with being a Christian, as if there weren't other religions in the world.
Ancient history wise, we don't know why Tevinter invaded Arlathan. They may have had a good reason, or they may simply have been conquering. The elves and dwarves coexisted because they had no overlap. One lived on the surface, the other underground. Limited competition for resources.
The Dalish haven't really attempted to settle down anywhere. They wander about, complaining about their lost past and never actually trying to do a thing about it. There are clans that will kill humans who cross their path and have done nothing wrong. They hate city elves. That's why people dislike the Dalish.
The elves of the Dales shirked their treaty obligations in the Second Blight. They isolated themselves from their neighbors. They invaded Orlais and sacked towns and cities along the way. The Exalted March was declared a while after the invasion began. If the Chantry had really wanted to invade the Dales, they could have declared the Exalted March much sooner.
As for letting go of the past, I mean they should stop wallowing in their grief and actually try to do something. For one thing, their hatred of humans only serves to reinforce the human view of the Dalish as savages. If they let go of that, maybe they could make a few friends or advocates amongst humanity, but they don't.