You and I were discussing the comments made by the original poster, who said she wouldn't touch a game based on the fact that she thought she had to play as a man. No where did I suggest you buy games on gender alone.
You said "I would imagine people would like to look for a game that is good vs. looking for their gender" which, placed under my comment, led me to believe you assumed we did not look for good games, only the ability to play as our own sex. Since we agree that isn't the case we can drop it.
And I'm saying as an adult some things just shouldn't matter because with experience one gains a bit of perspective. I made myself very clear that I think the men that are uncomfortable playing women should get over that as well if the story is worth experiencing. So if suggesting that adults shouldn't be avoiding media based on the gender of the characters comes off as bad, I have a bad mentality.
It's nice that you feel this way about men and women equally, but to say "as an adult some things shouldn't matter" is dismissive of those adults (men and women) to whom it does matter. I have tried to explain why it does matter to me. If that doesn't convince you, then you're free to have your own opinion.
I never suggested people shouldn't desire more diversity in protagonists nor did I ever say wanting to experience something that you consider rare, whatever that may be, is a bad thing.
I agree, nor did I accuse you of it. I merely pointed out that when you say "I rank what gender the main character is... mattering so much you will not touch the product...up there with the things an adult shouldn't care about," people who DO care would more than likely find this condescending and react badly.
My comments were directed specifically at the notion that an adult (the original poster) was actively avoiding a story that she thought was 'the best thing since sliced bread' because it had a man and not a woman in the reviews and trailers she watched. A story she became enamored with already, she said she wouldn't buy when she thought she had to continue with a male character only later when she realized she was mistaken did she go and buy the next chapter in the story.
Ok, as an adult I have tried to explain why I would do something similar to what the OP did. Whether you agree with our avoidance of good games because of lack of sex customization is actually beside the point.
Boiling down this thread (not just your comments):
OP: Hey, Bioware! You have a feature in your games I really want! If only you had made it obvious it was in your other game I would have gotten it much sooner! You should work on communicating that better.
BSN: You should have looked harder if you really loved games. Also, this feature you want is unimportant and not worth informing anyone about. I believe people don't care about it and as an adult you shouldn't care either. Finally, your story is suspect and you smell. (Ok, I might have added that last bit.)
Can't we agree that if there is a feature that people like in a game, that will cause them to buy it (for whatever reason) then Bioware should communicate that in the interests of having more paying customers?
You went on to put a whole lot of words in my mouth to suit your counterargument against my post however as it turns out you and I do the same thing. You support products you consider rare because you'd like to see more of the like in the world while that is exactly what I do with the Witcher series. I love CDPR's stance on DLC and DRM and treating the customer as more than just an ATM. So many companies nickle and dime you for everything and have increasingly more troublesome DRM that treats paying customers like criminals while pirates get a much smoother working game and haven't paid a dime (look to the Settlers 7 for example of DRM so invasive that prevented people from playing the game they paid for) I see CDPR's business practice as rare and as such I go out of my way to support them because I'd like them to be successful and for other companies to see you don't have to treat your customers poorly to earn a profit. You would like there to be more female protagonists in the world and you do the same thing, great. That was never anything I posted against.
I don't believe I ever put words into your mouth. If I mistook your intent then hopefully that has been cleared up. I support your voting with your wallet -- it's the only way we consumers will get what we want, but I'm not sure how that's relevant to the topic. I don't believe I ever accused you of posting against more female protagonists, only of unintentionally coming off as condescending.
In any case, thank you for being civil.