I find it a bit extreme that some people express such a passionate hate for that culture, even though we've only seen the military aspect of it?
If I hate one country's military, I don't automatically hate the people who live there and have that culture, especially if I have never met such a person, or have been in that country.
I'd find it awesome, actually, if we could go to some place in future games, that is inhabited by non-military qunari. Doesn't need to be Par Vollen (even though that's be totally so freaking awesome omfg), maybe just some small isle, or something...
We hate the Qun less for the military aspect of it and more for the very rigid, stone-like way it is enforced. All are Qunari, even if you don't know it yet and if you don't like it, we'll beat you until you submit. Kinda like old school, and some new school, Christians.
Oh, and the whole "Saarabas" thing they are so deep into. They make the Chantry seem like merciful beneficiaries in comparison.
Anywho, my female Tal Vashoth Rogue Verae Adaar is gonna make some heads roll with Cole, Iron Bull, and Sera/Solas by her side. No horns, a troublemaker, and a total mage fangirl. Go Kossith!