Could anyone tell the difference?
yeah, I mean Hawke could only
- treat the Arishok with respect
- inform him of any violent action Hawke felt forced to take against his men
- honestly explain the state of the city, and the actions of zealots
- Support his converts
- Let him take one of your own companions to satisfy the demands of the Qun
- (in MotA) work to help protect Qunari who are not harming anyone from persecution
1. You do need to be a sniveling rude child to a opposing force, you can greet them with the respect due to a tired and true foe.
2. You don't need to be dishonest with a foe either; especially with Qunari, we all know what they want, and we all know Thedas's reaction. There truly is no deceit needed for war here.
3. See one and two.
4. This one is difficult i admit; while Hawke can support the notion of the Arishok and agree with his stance in protecting those under his command, there is no outright admittance that is anything more then him agreeing with it militarily. A commander looking after his troops, there need not be any ideological reasoning.
5. You mean a traitor to you personally by that point?
6. I both loath and enjoy that DLC and much of the reasoning why is involved with this very occurrence. Hawke can go out of their way to prevent a mass slaughter, but their reasoning for that could extend to just that. Again ideology need not be involved.
But an equally valid choice is working against the Qunari agent there and refusing to aid her once her affiliation is announced.
Pity that choice ends up resulting in the same thing but ah well.