Straight women (or to be more accurate, those who play straight human or elf females) get more. Which is a nice change from BG/ME/where I felt barely tolerated, and not because of romance. I'm not going to apologize for being favored here. Especially when the option I wanted was Blackwall and the other two I'm interested in are Cassandra and Josephine.
But they've gotten more than gay male and lesbian PCs in every Dragon Age game, period.
They got two in DAO, three in DA2, and now 4 in DAI.
Whereas gay and lesbian characters have gotten: 1, 2, 2.
Goodness gracious, you certainly don't have to apologize as you didn't actually do anything, but you should be able to say, "I agree; that's not fair." Because it isn't.
Obviously, the team weren't going for fairness, but it's okay to point that out if it bothers some people.
You can, of course, add, "I don't care that it's not fair," but that's on you.