Yeah, that just makes me hate him more.
Free mages put others at risk as well as themselves just by virtue of being a mage, so it is a very selfish thing to fight the Templars instead of choosing to make the Circle your new home. As far as living conditions go, you would most likely be better off than the average, "free" citizen of Thedas.
Worse yet, Anders insists to shove this FREEEEDAHHHM!!!-nonsense down the throat of those who do not want it.
I reject the notion that there is any "plight" of mages.
I think the problem is because we're never shown the abuses of the Templars to the mages, nor the actual living conditions, especially of the Gallows. I mean think about it, you're stuck in one place from near birth to death, discouraged from having sexual relations, or relationships (not that they don't happen), and just generally on house arrest for life. And for what? For being born with the potential to cause harm; you personally haven't done anything yet. We see the Circle Tower in DA:O post Uldred, we see all the blood mages and abominations in Kirkwall, but we never see Templars abusing mages.
And before anyone brings up the "stress causes abominations" argument, I bring a few examples:
Morrigan lived in the Wilds, surely that would have been stressful at some point (and yes she had Flemeth to teach her)
Malcolm Hawke was an apostate who escaped 2 Circles, and as far as we know didn;t turn to blood magic or become an abomination
Bethany and Hawke PC were both born apostates and neither went on to do damaging magic.
Solas
Dalish Keepers
Hell, even Merrill never became an abomination, her keeper did (she claims in order to protect Merrill, but we know it was just to provide a boss fight)
In fact, one of the most famous characters in the series in an NPC whose major role was being locked up and abused by mages in a quest in the tower.
It's the Thedosian version of the Quarian/Geth conflict.