Perhaps one day they will release a farming simulator for those who want so badly to join the qun. If you roll female, you get to spend the whole game reading books and knitting scarves. If you roll male, you toil away at crops day and night, night and day, and never aspire to do anything else in the game, because that's your role in the qun. If you roll mage, well, good luck with that.
The qun is not a fairyland of badassery for all. Everyone wants their PC to be the next Arishok, but the reality is that you would more likely be shoved into the lowest ranks of qunari society and told to shush about it, because you do not argue your role. If you got fed up with that and tried to rise above your station or show that you're deserving of more, you'd get lobotomized and sent back to work, game over. A fascinating glorified Farmville.