Eh but couldn't I say it's realistic that no one would ever have time for sex during the inquisition? That some of them would be uninterested or unwilling to have sex? That there would be at least one that would insist on having sex with a white sheet over the person? I'm sure there are a bazillion ways to attack the 'realistic' notion that you have 9 people or whatever it is, all ready and primed to commit to overt sexual relationships during the course of the game. Shouldn't some stop halfway? Shouldn't one insist upon doing it only after the conclusion of the imminent threat from the darkspawn and all that? Shouldn't one stop at the moment before taking it all off to declare they don't lack the overwhelming desire all of a sudden? Shouldn't one be too shy? Shouldn't one have some kind of STD that makes it impossible? (I mean seriously, talk about something common in the 14th century)
Somehow those arguments never materialize though, it's only when someone isn't completely clothed in full body plate during a battle that these realism arguments pop up. The idea that all 9 characters are just completely ready and willing to shag you is never picked apart from a reality point of view, in fact, it's been increasingly demanded and assumed that it must be included in the game. I find the idea that all 9 are ready and willing to shag at the drop of a few gifts and positive dialogue options much more unrealistic and unsettling then the silliness by having an attractive outfit in combat, nevermind the ridiculous double jumps and stupid looking flourishes that all the party members do in combat (or that Iron Bull, a melee warrior, has nothing else on). From my perspective, just about every other thing in DA looks pretty dumb and unrealistic, but for whatever reason this is the one thing people pick on above the others.
Of course, you might add that this is because the game is supposed to be fun, and so certain liberties are taken, but then I would say why not make attractive outfits one of them? It's a game, after all. Since that doesn't appear to be the case, it strikes me that there is clearly something an attractive outfit that just sets people's neurons firing in all kinds of unexpected and extreme ways, that strikes me as brazenly irrational, and I'm still not sure why that is so.