So if you were a mage would you prefer to be in the circle (no sex or kids allowed, living in the same place for the rest of your life, restricted freedom and (possibly) abusive templars) or as a warden where you have more freedoms but have the certainty of dying within 20-30 years (if not sooner) and having to fight darkspawn for the rest of your life.
Personally I would rather be a warden. More freedom, even at the cost of a longer life, is one I would be willing to pay. Also it would be good to know that I am providing a service to thedas whether I am thanked or not.
Edit: Btw I know these are not the only two options when you are a mage (apostate, magister, etc) but out of the two specifically what would you prefer?
- Kids are allowed in the Circle, that's where they are trained. Unless you meant having kids; They get taken away and become sheltered by the Chantry.
- No sex? That's not true. Everyone was kissing everyone at the Circle Tower in Ferelden. And that's coming from Anders. Wynne even had a kid with a Templar.
- You don't have to live in the same place your whole life. You can be moved to a different tower if they decide its better that way, and if you prove responsible you can always leave the Tower. Only recently (Thanks to Adrian and Anders) did they restrict rules about leaving the Tower.
- "Abusive" is a matter of perspective really... To any normal person (Bethany) its mildly uncomfortable now and again, to people like Anders its living torture living in the Circle.
I'd rather be a Circle mage. Have access to education, a peaceful life with other people like me, and answer the call to arms when/if there is a blight or when people need healing. Grey Wardens are needed to kill the Archdemon, but someone needs to unleash infernos to clear the horde between them.
Then again, if all mages are being attacked now (I doubt it, Cullen isn't trying to kill our mages) by Templars then I'd prefer to be a Warden. Then again, Warden are under attack from the Inquisition anyway. Circle mage, for sure.