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Is dating a person over a video game a good idea?


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#301
TheBunz

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No if he is trying to get in my pants then it's a completely different matter, I would understand my bf then, I did cut some guy friends off for my ex back then out of free will because of that so of course I understand it, if it was reversed and a girl was constantly hitting on my guy, then I would want him to cut her loose too, so I get that. It's just the non trying friends I'm talking about that should be okay.


Agreed

#302
The Valiant Misanthropist

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Okay.... jokes aside for ONCE.... Bunz... if you think about it... dating someone without seeing their face at first, will let you fall in love with her personality first without judging her from her purely from looks to begin with, she can still be hot but this way you get to delve deep into her personality and know things about her, explore things which you otherwise normally wouldn't have done because you would have been blinded by her good looks. And maybe if you find a girl online, a gamer girl and she has that awesome personality you fall in love with, then maybe, just maybe when you finally see that pic of her then it wont matter what she looks like because you have gotten to love her that much or care for her that much.... ;)

^That! 111% agree with that and is what I was going to say.



#303
aclockworkrobot

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Well this depends, I met my husband through an online video game. We were friends for almost six-years before meeting in person and following through with a relationship. We already knew a lot about one another because we spent A LOT of time speaking to one another. He didn't have a lot else to do while stationed in South Korea, our friendship was very strong and we spoke a lot up until the point he got deployed and kind of disappeared off the map. But, he returned and we hit it off again like we never missed a beat. 

He is my best friend, and to be honest one of our strongest bonds is gaming. We may not play the same games as of current (we met through World of Warcraft, and we are both on hiatus as of currently) but nonetheless it is something we can bond over. We have gotten our daughter into gaming as well, and it is something we can do as a family. Do I think just anyone should hop into a relationship before meeting someone in person at least once? Not particularly. However, I can't hate on video game formed relationships.

Having known him via a video game first, it allowed me to get to know HIM without all the distractions of physical appearance (I added him on FB about a year or two after talking to him) and because of it we became really, really good friends first and foremost. Though, I guess in the end it may not count because we never really dated over the video game itself, we didn't actually go into the 'relationship' status until we met... but regardless, I did meet him and maintain a long-term friendship with him via a game :)



#304
Gravisanimi

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All I'm saying is I have never had a friend who was a women that didnt try getting some cookies.

Chocolate Chip or snicker-doodles?



#305
TheBunz

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^My cookies would have to be these ones

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#306
Dermain

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^My cookies would have to be these ones

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So...cookies that make you throw up?



#307
Dominus

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Is dating a person over a video game a good idea?

Dating is always going to entail a level of risk. There's a ton of variables that could make your chance at a Potential Waifu/Husbando dwindle. The major one for video game relationships, I'd suspect, is distance. I'd been in a similar position many years ago.

I don't think it's an awful idea. It can, and has worked before. I'd just reccomend caution if you romantically pursue someone via gaming.

#308
A Crusty Knight Of Colour

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The world is smaller than it's ever been. Dating a person over a video game or online is it's own risk, sure. But not significantly moreso than in real life, with the all consuming nature of social media nowadays.

 

Basically, if you decide to date some girl through a game Based Bunz, chronicle your relationship on BSN through new threads pls.



#309
Jalil

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Just remember: if it all goes to hell, file for child support.