David Gaider has long been burned out on the fanbase. You can tell that he holds at least a large part of it in contempt.
The irony is that "large part" of the fan base is what pays his salary. If you choose to work in an industry that largely depends upon pleasing fans, you'd better be prepared for backlash when you fall short of their expectations.
Obviously Bioware can't make everyone happy, but some of the things we've requested seem like such easy solutions (separate hair/horn slider, allowing "hornless" Qunari to use some of the hairstyles from other races, etc) and yet Bioware doesn't even address them...
I guess it's not surprising given how the whole Jennifer Hepler thing panned out, and the cesspit that were these forums a few years ago.
What happened to Jennifer Hepler was despicable and unforgivable, but no one here has even come close to crossing *that* line. For the most part we've all respectfully expressed our disappointment regarding the female Qunari hair options and continue to hope that Bioware will add more in a DLC.
I will just have to end up playing as a curly ram-horned Qunari with a mohawk. The mohawk really does not look bad at all to me on a male Qunari, so long as it is black ( to mask the lower quality compared to the hair of the other races ). Black mohawk + black beard + dark bronze skin tone should look good.
My ideal would have been hornless, but I can live with this other option just fine. Still a bit sad for you guys who wanted to play as a female Qunari with nice/long-ish hair.
That's *exactly* how I envision my male Qunari looking in my first play through, too

And it's nice to see other people sympathizing with our cause even though it doesn't directly affect them!