Maybe your Hawke was incompetent. My Hawke knew he was about. It's not his fault the universe hated him.
Exactly... I have no idea how Hawke garnered so much dislike. The only situation where I remember him being incompetent was during All That Remains, but the quest was deliberately designed to shoehorn Leandra's death into the story... blaming Hawke for things like that is unfair.
Do I need to break this list down again; I think we've had enough Hawke threads that I don't need to. But here's a few highlights:
1. Lets Anders live.
2. Lets Anders live.
3. Watched as an ogre charged their mother and sibling
4. Took a qunari outside the city because s/he was asked to.
5. Let their sibling contract the the Blight, if taken with them
6. Tried to kill a Primordial Darkspawn that has bested the best of the Wardens for centuries, ending with their release.
7. Antagonized the Arishok
8. Watched as Qunari were brutally slaughtered, no matter the decision
9. Didn't stop Patrice on any occasion
10. Watched a blood mage kill his wife, perfectly able to stop him, even when they promise to protect her
11. "I'm not choosing a side." "Yes you are are!" "Okay."
12. Let Orsino finish his ritual to change into a amalgam of corpses.
13. Not recognizing Meredith's sword she's had for 3 years
14. Almost started a war with Orlais
15. Lets Anders Live
The list goes on, man. I actually like Hawke better than the Warden, but they're kind of....incompetent.