Put me down in the, "I don't care category."
That said, I do think there's a bit of the "overzealous social justice warrior" stuff in the forums. Not a lot, but it is there... (one long thread about the male/female ratio not being exactly 50/50 comes to mind)
I made that thread on my other account, and it was asking for the female/male ratio to be roughly (ROUGHLY) 20% women and 80% men in armies as opposed to all men, due to the fact that lorewise women are supposed to have reasonable representation in armies.
It was also saying there should also be roughly (ROUGHLY) 50% women in mage factions, as opposed to 100% men, due to the fact that gender has no bearing one one's ability to cast magic.
Please don't put words in peoples mouths.
That kind of stuff is actually very common with BVHs. They instinctively think they don't like something so convince themselves that the people are asking for more than they actually are and trying to make everything clinical.