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Sondage : Bigotry (62 membre(s) ont voté)

Have you ever displayed bigotry towards any sexuality?

  1. A voté Yes: many times (6 vote(s) [9.68%])

    Pourcentage des votes : 9.68%

  2. A voté Yes: on a few occasions (19 vote(s) [30.65%])

    Pourcentage des votes : 30.65%

  3. A voté Not sure (11 vote(s) [17.74%])

    Pourcentage des votes : 17.74%

  4. A voté Never (19 vote(s) [30.65%])

    Pourcentage des votes : 30.65%

  5. A voté Other (7 vote(s) [11.29%])

    Pourcentage des votes : 11.29%

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#101
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You can do the transsexual surgery, in order to become a lesbian!

 

No way to change back, I'd rather have Shrek surgery to become Shrek so I can go around telling people to check themselves before they get Shreked.

 

...actually I wouldn't want that either. I am happy with who I am. Thank you Kaiserian...my mind is no longer clouded and I can see clearer now. Thank you, I can die here now. Here, have this:

 

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It will allow you to summon help from the Dragon Age: Inquisition forum. Oh and take this:

 

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It will open the locks on the legacy forum...so that you may behold the ghosts that now haunt them. Finish my task and cleanse the foru...ughjd! *dead*


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#102
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That there's only a right one, we're not speaking of ice cream flavors, and the http://en.wikipedia....est_disputandum doesn't have any place in the discussion.

wish u were gay ...

 

sadly its something u are born with and not a FLAVOR to pick in ur mother's womb U .......... ok I won't call you names or anything although i would really like to... its people like you just make my life 10x more difficult than it already is

 

fortunately ur numbers dwindle and soon ur "kind" will be a bad memory



#103
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yah buddy sorry to break it to yah but in term of biological nature their is no "right one"

Biologically, being cannibalistic or eating cats are the same thing too. Westerners don't do any of those and there are laws that enforce that rule, because of morals.

I'm saying this for the same reason you don't apply 2+2 using a dictionary instead of arithmetic.



#104
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but when that number reaches 20 billion....

 

God no!

7 billion people population is already a nuisance. I prefer 2 billions actually. Then cities will have no air pollution, nature can repair itself with ease and there is resources and comfort for everyone with our current technology.


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#105
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New topic:

 

Ignorance about religion.

 

"Those pesky xtians suck! I hate them!" ~ Mcduff Fedorain, the "Enlightened" one

 

It always amuses me when an anti-theist speaking of gay rights then comes along and starts being bigoted towards anyone of religion. If you want to eliminate bigotry then treat everyone fairly regardless of creed and sexuality and I don't give a damn about what any religion did in the past. You can criticize the religion if you wish but as soon as you start using hate speech towards adherents of that religion then you're guilty of the same thing you judge others of.

 

The only people I truly despise are extremists of religions (or lack thereof), political ideologies and sexualities (such as a sex obsessed pervert). It's fine to be whoever you want to be so long as you don't become intolerant to another group. If you espouse equality then you need to espouse it for every civil group even for those you don't necessarily agree with...except for liberals and socialists of course!


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#106
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^^ Obvious Instigation

 

But on a serious note, it does feel good to know that you are inherently better than someone else. 



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Abraham_uk, on 06 Oct 2014 - 1:25 PM, said:
When you have a word that doesn't differentiate between a tool that makes unacceptable remarks and a dictator that kills millions, then that word in my opinion is a failed word.
 

This is just silly. We don't need a special, Hitler-specific dictionary so that we don't accidentally describe others with qualities that could also describe Hitler.


Word usage is as individual as the person using it: context, familiarity, conversation, situation. In the privacy of our bedroom my wife has no problem calling me a ******. In a group of friends the word ****** may get throw out as in "You ******, there is not a woman gone by you would not go down on." Or, “You bigot. You would not give the time of day to a straight woman.” These are not necessarily true statements. It is when the use of a word is intended to describe in an offensive manner that it becomes negative or bigoted.

Humans, for the most part have no problem telling when this is happening simply because we register body language, facial expressions and tone of voice very quickly, so there is not a large requirement for us to define bigotry only to get past it. Education is probably the best method.

Instead of wanting to support gays or lesbians for the sake of doing the right thing, find out about us. You wont like some of us and you will like some of us. We are as diverse and equal as any other human being. We simply have wiring that causes us to be attracted to your own gender.
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#108
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there is nothing better than a good person except a person that wants to be a good person :P

 

dont worry OP...

 

most of us are raised to FALSE beliefs about sexuality and sex in general, no one tells u that guys can like and be intimate with other guys or girls liking other girls in a sexual manner ...etc etc

 

as humans we like to keep things neat and complex free.. sadly a human individual is as complex as a universe in itself and trying to label people is like trying to tell water molecules in the ocean where to go

 

example:

 

I knew i was gay from a REALLY early age, my parents never raised me "gay" (like there is such a thing) in fact we lived in an oriental surrounding where the first time I learned about sex was by accident at the age of 14 on cable TV on a badly coded channel .... 

 

I chop wood, I paint and I can fire an gun and kick ass like a ninja (well i cant flip in mid air) I love camping and doing evil MANLY stuff and act like any other guy u might meet on the street but when i come home I like my bed to be stuffed with hot man meat.

 

sex and sexuality are OVER RATED

 

procreation =/= intimacy and sex if people had sex to have babies only we would all be dead by now

 

Wow, Tarek. Never thought I'd say that, But, Agreed.


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#109
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God no!

7 billion people population is already a nuisance. I prefer 2 billions actually. Then cities will have no air pollution, nature can repair itself with ease and there is resources and comfort for everyone with our current technology.

 

Well since genocide is the cheaper solution, I'm sure that's not going to happen.

 

So let's go to space and meet Turians so we can have sex with them.



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Well since genocide is the cheaper solution, I'm sure that's not going to happen.

 

So let's go to space and meet Turians so we can have sex with them.

Genocide? Heavens no.

 

WAR. Need a good ol' fashioned total war scernario to help thin the herd. 



#111
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Genocide? Heavens no.

 

WAR. Need a good ol' fashioned total war scernario to help thin the herd. 

 

The west new population strategy:

 

- Make war in Africa

- Make war between Shia and Sunni

- Make war between China and India (lolwut?)



#112
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So let's go to space and meet Turians so we can have sex with them.

What the hell? Have you ever looked at a turian?



#113
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- Make war between China and India (lolwut?)

 

Impossibru. Both have nukes. Nukes = self governance and the freedom to do what you want in your country. And then people wonder why 'rogue' states wish to acquire them so badly.

 

Ever wondered why nobody cares about the awful sh*t that goes on in Pakistan? That's right, they got nukes.


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#114
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The only sexuality I don't like is the one where women refuse to have sex with me.

 

I don't know what it's called, but I'm getting to the bottom of it.



#115
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I would say not to worry about sexuality, I see it as a term that can be used to label people based upon what gender they like and really it shouldn't matter to anyone other than them and their partner(s)/attempted partner(s). While a person's sexuality is part of their identity, it makes up so little of it that it doesn't matter/shouldn't be an issue for anyone other than them (and I don't mean an issue in a negative sense, I'm trying to explain it, but I am fumbling, so I am just going to leave it at that).  

 

I have a bit of a story to tell about myself and I hope that it might sway anyone that comes across this post that thinks another's sexuality matters (to anyone outside of that person) to realize that it doesn't. Back when I was younger I was what you would call a... I don't really wan't to say the term because it gives credence to labels of one's sexual identity which would imply that makes them overly different when that isn't the case, but you know, I was opposed to same sex couples.

 

Eventually, I met my first college roommate, who was attracted to other men. I got to know him and I realized that he wasn't different from anyone else, just a kind and normal guy (awesome actually). It was at that point that I realized who the **** am I to judge someone else based upon their sexual orientation? I mean seriously, I was better than him in no way, what right did I have to judge him? I had always thought and boasted about how I was accepting of people liking different things, at that point it hit me like a brick that I wasn't, he was just another person who had a different preference than mine, but in this case it was in the dating department. 

 

That realization made me grow up, because you know, it is fine for people to like different things and have different preferences.

 

Straight, Gay, Bi, Tri, it doesn't matter to me now. I have learned to respect people for what they do and what they choose; judging someone based upon who they are attracted to is foolish. Doing so only closes doors to some potentially awesome friends because of the belief that they should like the same thing (or gender in this case) that you like. 

 

Sexual Identity is only an issue because some choose to make it one when it need not be. The only attention that it really needs is petitioning to get those ridiculous laws that prevent same sex marriage removed so that we can be closer to equality.

 

TLDR: Hating someone for their sexual identity is even more silly than hating someone because of what type of car they drive and I used to be more of a ******* than I am now, I am just glad that I learned to open my eyes, even if only slightly. 


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#116
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I don't dislike anyone because of their sexuality and I never go out of my way to insult anyone but.... I have to admit there have been certain segments of the LGBT community that have rubbed me the wrong way and I have VERY VERY little patience for them. Being the way I am (a lesbian) I try to be as tolerant as possible because I have many time been on the intolerant side (including getting beaten nearly to death once) but it's really hard sometimes. We work so hard on the LGBT community and it frustrates me when certain types just kill our "credibility" within the overall population. I'm not as bad as I used to be but...if you knew me in my 20's....watch out!



#117
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I love the gays! That's 2 less competitors.

 

(What, honey? No no, I'm not looking for another girl.)



#118
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Biologically, being cannibalistic or eating cats are the same thing too. Westerners don't do any of those and there are laws that enforce that rule, because of morals.
I'm saying this for the same reason you don't apply 2+2 using a dictionary instead of arithmetic.


The formal study of truth is logic. And without exception all the logical systems I know of are axiomatic in nature. That is to say that you assume a certain set of base premises or rules that constitute the system and within that system what you're talking about can be true or untrue with respect to those assumptions.

This is especially true of maths, where there are several systems running alongside each other each suited to different things and using wildly varying base assumptions. The reason that we don't do maths purely with a dictionary (though I'd point out that if you want to get fast at basic arithmetic you do memorise the first part of the arithmetic tables, or come up with some clever trick like relating it to visualised geometry in your head,) is that having extremely fast low level semantic reflexes reduces the mental load for when you need to deal with higher level abstractions. In that sense, it's similar to the idea that the first thing a programmer would do if handed a reasonably powerful computer with no compiller would be to write a compiller in whatever the highest level access to the system she had access to was.

So... you say that it's right or wrong - and that there's only one right answer - but what are your assumptions, and why should someone who doesn't value those assumptions care whether it's right or wrong according to your system? What's the buy in supposed to be? It's clear in mathematics why someone might buy into learning arithmetic efficiently, and conclude that for their purposes having to constantly refer to a dictionary would be the wrong answer. It's less clear with respect to sexuality why someone would buy into the idea that hetrosexuality was the one right answer to their particular life's challenges.
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#119
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I don't dislike anyone because of their sexuality and I never go out of my way to insult anyone but.... I have to admit there have been certain segments of the LGBT community that have rubbed me the wrong way and I have VERY VERY little patience for them. Being the way I am (a lesbian) I try to be as tolerant as possible because I have many time been on the intolerant side (including getting beaten nearly to death once) but it's really hard sometimes. We work so hard on the LGBT community and it frustrates me when certain types just kill our "credibility" within the overall population. I'm not as bad as I used to be but...if you knew me in my 20's....watch out!

i dont understand why its up to minorities to "prove" to others that their humanity needs to be respected. there are gender normative straight people who are weird and/or crazy, but nobody ever says that they represent gender normative straight people poorly. Infact thats one of the major points of equality, that everybody is flawed, which is part of being human, and not being held to some standard of sainthood just to have ones basic human rights respected. Dont do x because it represents your kind poorly, you stop doing x, suddenly youre told not to do y, you stop doing y, and on and on. dont do abcdeh... and then you will be respected, basically dont breathe and you will be accepted.



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That there's only a right one, we're not speaking of ice cream flavors, and the http://en.wikipedia....est_disputandum doesn't have any place in the discussion.

 

Yeah, people don't necessarily have a lot of say when it comes to attraction. Gay is not a menu option.

 

 


I chop wood, I paint and I can fire an gun and kick ass like a ninja (well i cant flip in mid air) I love camping and doing evil MANLY stuff and act like any other guy u might meet on the street but when i come home I like my bed to be stuffed with hot man meat.

 

 

Cool it, dude.



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No i havent. Because i think its just natural to use the mind instead of my primeaval instinct that leads to nothing. We humans have a brain for a reason... but if you love flesh in all it´s glory then hey, your thing!

 

So if "sex" is just a pleasure kind of thing detached from it´s original purpose then i´m not a bigot but a grounded person. Call me conservative if you like but bigotry is just a silly term. You can also be a bigot of style. I prefer my style over yours does that makes me a bigot ?



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i voted "never" because I love my boyfriend no matter what, even what I am to everyone. I am who I am is my own life and business, my choice. I also love all kinds of sexuality. I'm very open minded and curious in every aspect of Sexuality is.

also have been called a lot of offense names that hurt me, damage me etc. but I always come out holding to my own choices.

I still remember that I was assaulted last year ago because of my choice I made for being who I am truly. yet I always remain faithful to myself and to my boyfriend too. I've been with him for two months now. everything is great in my life.

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No i havent. Because i think its just natural to use the mind instead of my primeaval instinct that leads to nothing. We humans have a brain for a reason... but if you love flesh in all it´s glory then hey, your thing!
 
So if "sex" is just a pleasure kind of thing detached from it´s original purpose then i´m not a bigot but a grounded person. Call me conservative if you like but bigotry is just a silly term. You can also be a bigot of style. I prefer my style over yours does that makes me a bigot ?


Human sex is remarkably inefficient in creating offspring. Newly wed couples in countries where sex before marriage is almost unthinkable, and where you can thus safely assume that they'll have lots of sex in the first months of their marriage only have a fertility rate of like 28% per menstrual cycle. (source: The Third Chimpanzee -Jared Diamond)

That's quite inefficient.
Wait, no, on this planet, that is ridiculously inefficient.

Reproduction is not the main goal of human sex.

#124
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Reproduction is not the main goal of human sex.

 

Sex is one of life's most basic drives. I don't think that's totally true.



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I don't care what your sexuality is, but if you feel the need to remind of me of it every 5 minutes I'm probably going to find you annoying.

 

Has nothing to do with the sexuality though and I'll find you annoying if you do it about something else, too.