I guess for the "how Shep died" topic we won't commit to each other. I see it different, because it wasn't all about just Shepard. And especially in the Synthesis ending there was this great aspect of sacrificing yourself for all the others. You could decide to do that. And I don't think you can say they forced everyone into being something new. If the only alternatives are total extinction or the same stuff happening over and over again, and by choosing that dooming billions of lifes, well then this is the solution.
I also think this is a very good way of reflecting our own society these days. There is an media shaped image of total freedom which is just not true and never will be. EVERYTHING you do has consequences. Some are minor and unnoticed, but great actions always have great consequences. And if they are good, well to tell that you have to ask the people that are touched by them. And as soon as there are more than 2 people in a room you have at least 3 opinions. And so it goes on.
I totally understand where you guys come from, I really do. And I would lie saying that I would not love to see Shep live his happy ending. But to say his dead made no sense is in my understanding wrong. Because he did so much good along the way. Really, walk in his shoes. Take his place. Do this now:
You are Shepard. You stand there, beaten, exhausted. An ancient AI tells you finally about the way the whole galaxy works. You can't think straight because of the exhaustion and blood loss. But you understand that you have 4 ways to solve all this. You were full paragon all your life. You did so much good. You unified two races. You healed an almost incurable plague. You encouraged everyone to not give up, all the time. You helped teammates in forming relationships and one can finally become a father because of you. You have a lover yourself. All you did in your whole life was healing, connecting, being a good person. Would you now let all of this go to hell?
I don't think so. And that's why for me the synthesis ending is the most perfect of them all. Because literally a part of Shep is in every living cell now across the galaxy. That is his legacy. They are not forced to be something they don't want to be. If you can even speak of forcing them into something, then they are forced into being alive. And that's what all the games were about. None of them looked unhappy. Because if you listen carefully, the AI told us that not only they would change, but also that everyone would finally understand what life is and what it can be. That is an evolution, not a burden. That is no violation in my eyes.
And once more: it did matter how you decided along the way. That reflected who you are as a person. Why must that make an impact in the end?
And the comparison to Mordins death: Yes, he did good in the end for something bad he did in his life. But once more: Shepard is like Frodo. He was touched by the signal on Eden Prime. That was like wearing the ring. He was chosen. If that was destiny, coincidence, something that was Neo like in the Matrix, who knows? But he decided to go on the journey, knowing that he could die around almost every corner.
I would really like to know how the ending should have been in your opinion. Because if it's just about him living, that's not enough for me to justify the whole end as crap.
You wish for an Armageddon? Was that was Shepard was about, even if you play full renegade? I don't think so. In that case they should have made 2 endings, Synthesis and Armageddon. And if you were so evil along your way, than the Armageddon should do what an Armageddon does: wipe out everything including yourself and the galaxy.
Psychevore has this link in his profile to a review of the game (I guess most of you know it already, but if not I will post the link at the end), he also quotes the essence of that reviewer and I can't agree more:
We were all given a beautiful, articulate, poetic ending to a great story and for many of you, your choice was to spit in its f... face.
http://badassdigest....-mass-effect-3/